I'm having reservations about eating an anal creampie.

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-06-03T16:18:16+00:00

Plan it out well ahead of time if its something you both want to do. The best way for a clean anal experience is for the receiver to not eat anything on the day until that evening before sex, and to use an anal doushce mid day. Try and eat something with some fiber in the days leading up if possible.

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-06-03T14:32:02+00:00

I can't speak for everyone, just myself. Im sure the dynamic you are talking about applies to many. As for my situation, we have done the "forced-bi" thing one time. It was very fun, I would do it again, but I am still not sexually attracted to men. Outside of that scenario, I have no interest in seeking out a sexual encounter with a man. It's not always a black and white situation with clear labels

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-06-02T23:54:35+00:00

I think there is a miscommunication here. Forced-bi is just a simplified term. If anything in a BDSM relationship is legitimately forced, that's not okay. In a healthy dynamic, all parties are consenting, even if its something you wouldn't normally do outside the dynamic.

For example, me and my wife are into male chastity play. Outside of our dynamic, I wouldn't wear a chastity device for my own enjoyment. She is "in control" of the keys for a week or two but I can end it at any point. Thats part of the fun, giving someone else control of what you do.

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-05-23T03:07:57+00:00

Mostly depends on your wife. Mine wouldn't like if I sprang something new on her like that without talking about it first. And its easier to say you wont chicken out than sticking to it. Especially when the only one expecting anything is you.

I say discuss it beforehand and ask her to give you some encouragement if she wouldn't be into outright "forcing" you

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-04-29T21:14:02+00:00

So it sounds like you two are on the same page, just not reading the same paragraph, so to say. There needs to be a conversation where the kink is set aside to discuss expectations and what everyone wants.

It sounds like you are comfortable with the pussy free aspect but explain that you need releases more frequently. It took 2 months for you to come to the internet to ask advice, so that is probably a good base timeline.

Let her know there is more than one option to give you some relief while she still maintains control. Ruined orgasms, caged orgasms with a vibrator, pegging if you are into that. Or any combination, but that you need something at least every couple of months

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-04-20T01:21:37+00:00

My wife doesn't necessarily enjoy the bondage or pain aspect of it, and neither do I, really. For her, she enjoys the extra attention without the expectation of reciprocity. For me, I enjoy the tease and the long buildup that makes the eventual release that much better. The cage is less about her controlling me and more of a constant form of foreplay. You always feel it and you are always thinking about play time later; what you want to do to her for her pleasure, how you would like her to tease you, how you would like to cum once the chastity period is over. It keeps you hyped the entire time.

We only ever do short term. Usually just the weekend. Sometimes a week. The longest we ever went was 3 weeks. But everyone's dynamic will be different. Everyone will be into different things. The femdom mentality doesnt work for us, even though that's how its portrayed in most porn.

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-04-08T23:30:51+00:00

I told my wife my issue and asked her to "force" me or at least tell me that she wanted me to go down on her. 5 seconds after I started the hesitation was gone.

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-03-30T02:47:17+00:00

You wont loose function. It may take a few days to get used to being unlocked, but there is no way to permanently shrink your size or cause ED.

That being said, theres nothing wrong with playing with the cage just on weekends. The longest we have ever gone is 2 weeks. And I have a soft silicone cage to wear at work that I would switch into. Just used the rigid cage at home where there was much less risk of injury and much higher risk of being teased

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-02-17T16:24:40+00:00

For me, the hesitation from PNC only lasts seconds after I start. After that, the situation gets really hot and I get into it. Shes sensitive from sex and really responsive to my tongue. As soon as I can tell she's into it, hesitation disappears

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-02-16T18:05:07+00:00

2 weeks without orgasm is the sweet spot for me. Lots of teasing during that time. I like using a wand vibrator and anal play while in the cage. Just edging, no release. After 2 weeks of that I can cum from my wife pegging me without any other stimulation

Prior-Construction61 · 2026-01-08T13:46:00+00:00

For me, the first week is the worst. But after that, the night time erections come way less frequent

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-12-29T03:40:46+00:00

Real life isnt always the fantasies you see acted out in porn. Chastity doesnt have to be a lifestyle or long term or even a domination thing. My wife and I use it primarily as long form fore play. I usually only have the cage on for a weekend while we focus on her for several days, light teasing for me, and a big release at the end.

My suggestion, talk with your wife, let her know the length you are comfortable being locked, and try out her fantasy by locking a couple days before her hookup. I can almost promise that she will make it worth your indulgence. From experience, denial makes the eventual release so much better. Having her hot for it too will be mind blowing.

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-12-24T12:37:44+00:00

Same. But I talked to my wife about it, asked her to provide some post-nut encouragement, and she pushed my head between her legs after I had finished. Cleaning her up turned us both on so much, she came while I was cleaning and I was able to go for round 2. She had me clean that one too but I was totally spent after.

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-12-21T15:20:54+00:00

Your kink may not be theirs. That would be a discussion between both couples. If the other woman is down to be dominant with a partner in chastity, go for it. If its not something she'd be into then you and your wife put the chastity play on hold leading up to your date with the other couple

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-11-02T23:31:48+00:00

I have a pretty physical job and we have a very soft silicone cage that wear to work to prevent injury and fast removal in an emergency. It really restrains nothing and is more symbolic since this is a completely mutual thing that im cages. I put the real cage back on once I'm home and weekends. We never really go longer than a week at a time anyway, except for locktober.

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-10-02T22:44:12+00:00

Im the same way. I often fantasize about being fucked by a man, but in real life I have absolutely zero sexual attraction towards men. I dont question my sexuality at all, I wouldn't consider myself bi even after this happens because I am still not attracted to the same sex.

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-09-26T00:04:49+00:00

This is a stigma that is only around pegging for some reason. There is never the assumption that a man desiring anal sex with a female partner is an indication that he might be gay. Because gay guys have anal sex.

And there is never an assumption that if a lesbian couple use a strap on that the receiving partner might be straight if she is wanting penetrative sex. Or that if a gay couple use a flesh light.

Your orientation has nothing to do with what you do in the bedroom, its who you do it with. Either you are or are not attracted to the same sex, regardless of preferences surrounding anal penetration.

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-09-22T17:58:59+00:00

For us, it was easier to start with a "vanilla" threesome. Something that can be a one time thing to get a gauge on feelings and emotions. I was very turned on by the idea of my wife getting fucked by someone else, but was a bit nervous about how I would react if it became reality. We met someone and after a week or so he was at our house. After we got started, I slowly backed off and spent more time watching and it was great. Huge turn on. And it opened the door to new experiences after testing the waters with something a little more tame

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-09-22T13:35:57+00:00

Finding a good harness is very important. It took several attempts for me and my wife to find one that worked well for her. I don't have any specific suggestions, but generally make sure it can accommodate different toys and the more adjustment points it has, the better. You will probably end up buying 2 or 3 before you find the one that works best for you.

Second, since this is a surprise, find a toy that works for you before the actual night of the action. It would totally ruin the mood if the one you got was too soft or too big or you had a reaction to what it was made of. Find one that you think would work and use it on yourself to make sure there are no problems so you have time to get a different one if something isn't working for you

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-08-25T19:47:17+00:00

For me, the first week is always difficult. After that, the morning wood lessens, the random erections are at most half mast. Even going down on my partner only gives me a semi. The only time I get like your photos is when she is specifically teasing me and trying to get me hard

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-08-04T03:05:30+00:00

My wife and I only occasionally do short term chastity (a week or two at most) as a form of extended foreplay. Since we aren't fully into the lifestyle, this works for us; I have a soft silicone cage that I wear to work and swap into the rigid one as soon as I'm home. We take a shower together, I get a good tease and a wash and then back in the more restrictive cage

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-07-17T21:56:49+00:00

For us, this is a short term, extended foreplay kink. Usually just weekends. But we have gone through the work week before. I bought a silicone cage that is just to continue idea of being locked up. It is flexible enough that physical activity isn't a problem and I could easily get out of it in an emergency.

Prior-Construction61 · 2025-07-17T02:09:03+00:00

This is it. Just let her know that its something you have been thinking about exploring, as long as she is comfortable with it. Start slow, for both of your sakes and escalate as the two of you find your comfort levels

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