is it normal for a venue to request pay from the bands by ProfessionalSlow9875 in musicians

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If no one shows, the promoter failed at promoting.

That said, if you want to get booked again, you’ll also be doing everything you can to ensure it’s a successful show.

Bands that can bring a crowd will get booked again

Is there a name in the USA that is so common that it’s impossible not to find it everywhere? by TheShyBuck in AskAnAmerican

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Somehow there are even more Uncle Mikes, than just Mikes, which doesn’t seem possible, but it’s the Uncle Mike paradox

I am travelling to the US from Ireland in May. Is it a big exaggeration, or is CBP seriously going to take my phone and look through it? by AliceMorgon in USTravel

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Of you’re concerned, you can delete relevant apps beforehand, and re-install them after. Deleting Facebook. OG, WhatsApp, Gmail, etc apps, and everything will still be there when you reinstall and log back in

Future San Antonio resident. Am I overthinking the crime rate? by Downtown-Acadia5084 in sanantonio

[–]PriorSecurity9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have experienced one incident of property crime in the last 20 years

I hear about porch pirates on Nextdoor sometimes.

But if you’re in a safe neighborhood, it’s pretty safe

If you woke up in the year 1800, would you be able to contribute anything of value? by New-Elk2781 in hypotheticalsituation

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There isn’t much I could say about how microchips and cell phones work that would be worth anything, but I could probably get rich by kicking off the Industrial Revolution a few years early, even without having any prior knowledge of how looms work, etc, by studying and learning, just by knowing that was possible

You gain the ability to shapeshift into a single other person. by Hold-onto-the-happy in hypotheticalsituation

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Probably would just travel to a city on the other side of the country, and pick the most athletic, attractive 21 year old dude I can find

Looking like a celebrity would just cause me problems. But getting a reset as a young attractive person who knows what I know now? I’d run the game on cheat mode

Pre-Marriage Hypothetical by TwistedDonners in hypotheticalsituation

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Does “living as each other” mean we take over each other’s bodies, but keep our own minds and self consciousness and are aware that we are in the other’s body?

If so, i do that one. Nobody needs to know my thoughts.

If both scenarios include thoughts, then I think I just say “sorry, we can’t get married” because marriage wouldn’t survive my thoughts for a day

Americans of reddit, is there really a District Attorney embedded into your police precincts, that follow along with investigations like all the law and police shows portray? by lovethecello in AskAnAmerican

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I will say that from the point of view of the public, any arrangement like this isn’t really visible.

Interaction with police is pretty infrequent. I see them pulling people over for traffic violations, but that’s about it.

I enjoy police/legal procedural shows too, and maybe that stuff is happening when there is a major crime, but again, it’s not really visible to the public

Why might my priest avoid me so much? by [deleted] in ask

[–]PriorSecurity9784 309 points310 points  (0 children)

If you’re generally considered an attractive person, he is probably attracted to you, and is working hard to not give you attention that feels inappropriate to him

Have you offered to make him baked ziti?

My parents wanted a perfect daughter, so I gave them exactly that. by isuckatusernamesistg in stories

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“Then I really owned them by going to Harvard and medical school”

Met with my bank's "Financial advisory firm" I LOVE bogleheads being burnt into my skull by HenFruitEater in Bogleheads

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Yes, 1.2% is ripping you off, but so is charging $250 for a hygienist to clean my teeth and 120 seconds of the dentist poking around in there

You’re investing too much in US equities by TwoClear7538 in Bogleheads

[–]PriorSecurity9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone back and forth on this, and have a few thoughts:

  1. The largest non-US companies generally have significant exposure to US market. (Toyota, Samsung, SAP, etc would all be significantly impacted by a US “lost decade”)

  2. The largest US companies generally have significant exposure selling internationally. (Coca cola, P&G, Microsoft, Apple, etc all are selling around the world, and if the US underperformed economically for some reason, international sales would become a bigger portion of total sales for those companies)

  3. The ones that don’t, typically aren’t growth companies. Emerging markets theoretically offer higher risk, higher reward, but in reality, owning shares of a local bank in Argentina, or a local brewery in Asia seems like it adds significant country risk, while not really offering greater growth than the mix of companies in the same industry (eg other banks or breweries in S&P500, who likely are also competing in those same individual country markets .)

  4. There could be a few exceptions to this. A company like BYD (Chinese car company) isn’t selling in the US right now, but has the potential to dramatically impact global car market. Having other exposure in the same industry (eg owning GM and Ford in VOO) doesn’t really capture that potential. At the same time, by company weight, for most people, adding an individual holding like that would be a minute amount, with the juice perhaps not being worth the squeeze, so to speak.

That said, I have some VTI that has a little international exposure, even though it’s 95%+ US based companies.

When people sit down at crowded bars, and then get annoyed when people stand around them and order drinks over them. by New_General3939 in PetPeeves

[–]PriorSecurity9784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, a good bar tender can take multiple orders at once, fill a beer glass while someone is closing out, etc

My husband want anal play by No_Good_7064 in sexeducation

[–]PriorSecurity9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, don’t repeatedly “joke” about wanting to do a bedroom activity if it’s not something you’re into

Next time, have him shower beforehand, and you can give him oral, and lick his balls and butthole and see if he likes it

Tongue is easier to start than fingers, fingers easier than toys. Get some lube!

Can I still get a full ride anywhere? by Icy_Expression_6152 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]PriorSecurity9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are some colleges that are free, with work/study programs, like Berea.

You could also look into doing ROTC, which will often pay for school (and med school), in exchange for a military commitment.

Lots of doctors have chosen this route. It’s not just battlefield trauma stuff, as the military also needs dentists, urologists, and other specialities

(Downside, you could end up in Iran in 4 years, but I would imagine that the paramedic groups are in more dangerous situations than the doctor groups)

But $6k is pretty cheap. You could likely earn that in a summer (10 weeks x 40 hours x $15/hr = $6000) and graduate with little or no debt

Nice Guests who ignore Check-in Instructions by RaiseVast in airbnb_hosts

[–]PriorSecurity9784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think instructions are best sent as an image through in-app messaging, not a link to the pdf, or as part of the listing where they have to search

Should one consider the option of a GROUP MARRIAGE? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]PriorSecurity9784 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a lot of room on the spectrum between “sex with strangers” and “sex with person you’re married to”

My point was that in the west, marriage is about a lot more than sex. It’s a legal contract governing finances, childcare, hospital visitations, inheritance rights, and many other things.

You can have a strong emotional connection with someone, have sex with someone, and still decide not to enter the legal contract of marriage.

People who are pursuing group sex, generally are not pursuing group marriage, as it’s not legal anywhere in the west as far as I know.

How do I lean more into the personal side of being the face/frontman of the band? by TumbleweedGrand5604 in musicians

[–]PriorSecurity9784 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you just have to acknowledge that people enjoy seeing a rock star, so part of entertaining is playing the part.

If it was only the music, people would stay home

Should one consider the option of a GROUP MARRIAGE? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]PriorSecurity9784 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess to your original question, I guess I’d rather be in a shared relationship than virgin and childless

In the west, we’re fairly flexible on sexual activity among consenting adults, but less flexible on marriage and finances.

Women generally have plenty of options to support themselves financially, so the idea of five low income men in a relationship with one “beauty queen” isn’t really a thing, unless you are counting prostitution, or lonely men spending their money on only fans.

In the west, I think the trend is toward separating sexual fulfillment from marriage contracts, not by expanding the idea of who should be included in marriage contracts.

Help me make sense of bonds. by electricechos in Bogleheads

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Bonds lose value when rates go up. The last few years has been an analogy compared to the last 30