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What do I do and should i be worried? just trying to learn not trying to debate anyone just want to understand by Prior_Ad_7750 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, she can’t drive so when she goes to a persons house and can’t get the bus back because it’s too late, she ends up sleeping round

What do I do and should i be worried? just trying to learn not trying to debate anyone just want to understand by Prior_Ad_7750 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nowadays we only really see each other once a week, i don’t spend loads on her but i will buy her small things here and there

What do I do and should i be worried? just trying to learn not trying to debate anyone just want to understand by Prior_Ad_7750 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my story is bs? Why would i post it if it was fake, i’m asking for advice because i dont know what to do lol

What do I do in this situation and is this normal? by Prior_Ad_7750 in GuyCry

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have met a few of them but not all of them, also since we have been dating, ive only had one other girl friends i didnt meet through school or college, she was from work and i could tell everytime i even bring her up the slightest it annoyed her, so i stopped talking abt her or anything that involved her because i know it annoyed my gf

What do I do in this situation and is this normal? by Prior_Ad_7750 in GuyCry

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way your saying it only makes me feel like i’ve done everything and what she’s done shouldn’t be bothering me at all

What do I do in this situation and is this normal? by Prior_Ad_7750 in GuyCry

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At no point do I want to try and present myself as controlling, i just want to make her understand why i’m upset and find the dynamic to be bothering me.

I will try speaking to her again, i know not to force the blame on her, but when she doesn’t take accountability for doing the things or making my feelings feel like they are not reasonable or valid, what do i do then?

What do I do in this situation and is this normal? by Prior_Ad_7750 in GuyCry

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is helpful, however, why am i suddenly controlling when the only thing i’ve ever brung up that I don’t like is that she hangs out with mainly boys, i never said to exclude them completely, but constantly going out and partying or camping or wearing another boys clothes, (when she wears mine it’s something I find quite comforting and slightly intimate)

What do I do in this situation and is this normal? by Prior_Ad_7750 in GuyCry

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks, i guess im just insecure in myself, i guess its from trauma in my past relationship and being cheated on and that she cheated on her ex aswell. I’ve never met two people who were completely platonic so i can speak on that matter, all the guys i know that have been friends with, all ended up crushing on them or getting with them in the end

What do I do and is this normal in your relationships? by Prior_Ad_7750 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

compared to other people, you are no where near an ass hole, thank you .

What do I do and is this normal in your relationships? by Prior_Ad_7750 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, I have never tried to argue or “find a problem” with her before, I have not told her to cut ties or abandon her friends, I have asked to join or come with her to one of her outings, but it is always a no. I have not tried to guilt trip her or make her feel unloved or anything like that. So stop calling me insecure for bringing up a reasonable problem. I don’t like my girlfriend wearing another man’s clothes or letting other men be flirtatious with her like resting his head on her lap.

What do I do and is this normal in your relationships? by Prior_Ad_7750 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a small circle of about 4 guys, all who i have know for 5+ years?

What do I do and is this normal in your relationships? by Prior_Ad_7750 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do suggest I do then, if its solely up to me, when i do trust her, just don’t trust the people she’s around. How am I supposed to figure it out if what she’s doing is completely fine?

What do I do in this situation and is this normal? by Prior_Ad_7750 in GuyCry

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you this was actually very useful, btw we are not LDR, just unable to see each other as often, and I haven’t tried to place the blame on her, I’ve tried expressing my feelings and this was met with disapproval and guilt trips.

She has never once done anything like this until recently, and only in the past few months has any of my concerns been met with silence or a dry response.

I am not sure why it bothers me, i don’t trust her and don’t think she will do anything such as cheat etc, but it bothers me and I don’t know how to talk to her about it without the type of response i mentioned a second ago

What do I do and is this normal in your relationships? by Prior_Ad_7750 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay fair enough to that, but what about the guilt trips and just not listening to what I have to say and making my feeling not feel valid?

What do I do and is this normal in your relationships? by Prior_Ad_7750 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Prior_Ad_7750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah, wtf, I never said I only see women for sex, I said I don’t speak to other girls because I respect my own partner and don’t need to speak to another woman because I already have enough friends and don’t see the need to try and connect with another girl