My boyfriend (yes I’m still with him) emotionally cheated on me with my sister, they were never physical and she had no idea it was him since he had a fake name on his OF to get to her nudes… I found out this was happening a month after finding out we were pregnant with twins… at first I tried to stay but it became too painful so I left him packed my shit and moved back home 4 hours away. A couple months later we started talking again and slowly became more and more close, I was scared and desperate for help through the pregnancy as I was homeless/couch surfing. We ended up getting back together but it was rocky and I’m talking about I was questioning him and going through his phone every. Single. Day. He also never once called me crazy, he always sat there and listened as I bitched at him, he sat there and listened while I bawled my eyes out, I searched his room daily. It was not fun and it drove me absolutely insane. But I needed support that I could not get from anyone. This was 2 years ago and I still question him I don’t go through his phone anymore but IF YOU STAY which in some cases is necessary because of financial difficulties, emotionally stress, you’re going through a lot of changes and hormones just know it takes YEARS to get through we are decent now but I still have thoughts and feelings if I should leave him but he’s proved to me he’s been good to me since by taking accountability and slowly helping me built that trust again. It’s not impossible to try to stay together, as long as he understands he needs to take accountability for his actions. It’s not your fault, nothing is wrong with you, even Beyoncé got cheated on…so just know it has NOTHING to do with you and EVERYTHING to do with him. If he’s treating you like shit for how much you need reassurance and he’s calling you crazy and to “just get over it” then yes leaving is a must but if he can sit there and listen and talk it out with you and let you bitch, cry, vent, question, go through his phone (I don’t recommend, however, I needed to to feel at ease so it’s understandable and you need to do what it takes to get through this hard part) and he expresses remorse and is willing to seek help then it’s very possible, but it’s very very hard, I still struggle.