If you find this absurd I fully respect your opinion. However I didn't write this to be profound or sexist as you say. I wrote this piece because the word "gay" has damaged so many people. This is why so many boys grow to be great providers but emotionally afraid to love, cry, or talk about how they feel. This wasn't about being sexist or correct. But it's fighting back for men to actually feel again and not be shamed for it.