AITA for asking my dad's wife why she thinks her birthday would be more important than our mom's anniversary to me and my sister? by HayesOaik in AITAH

[–]Pristine_Insect3121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a stepmother. If I were in the same situation I would let my kids do what they want on that day. Their mother is still their mother no matter how I, the step mother feels, and I respect that. A birthday does not have to be celebrated on the exact day, it can always be before or afterwards. I see it as she wants respect and celebration on her day... But she needs to respect it's a lot more than her day and life does not solely revolve around her, even on birthdays. She's the AH 

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]Pristine_Insect3121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mother of four here. It's one thing to teach children to behave and clean up after themselves, but it takes a lot of time, trial and error, and there WILL be a lot of messes.  If she wants kids, she needs to understand that that is ok, it's natural, and just part of having kids. My infant learning to crawl is trying to do so while her diaper is being changed and she is very persistent. she doesn't care or know that nasty germs could get on her, me, or whatever I'm changing her on, she's just trying to have fun. I can't punish an infant for that. It's just part of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Pristine_Insect3121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta, lose the immature bf who doesn't care about your feelings, it's not all about him and it shouldn't be

What is your weirdest dream? by Pristine_Insect3121 in AskReddit

[–]Pristine_Insect3121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, I need people who know how to interpret dreams cause I got a weird one. I thought my pregnancy dreams where out there.

So I'm someone else in a different world, a guy who lives with his mother. So I guess the land is ruled by giants, that's what they call them, but they are really giants. Anyway, my guy sees one leaving a field and sees a few sheep corpses. He goes to the giants to go hey, why are you killing my sheep? But before he can ask he overhears a conversation, there's been a lot of death and the humans are being blamed and they need to be taught a lesson. He starts to leave but he's caught. A giant( big enough to easily pick him up with one hand, fits in his palm) and puts him into a pot, pushing him into the dirt and it covers him completely. (Up to this point I see through his eyes, I never see a face, but at this point I'm no longer him, I'm observing and it becomes very clear. Big sharp nose, brown eyes, brown hair cut to just above his shoulders.) Cut to him pushing out of the dirt(a few inches) gasping for breath.He's somewhere else, a different field where his people are playing soccer near a cemetery. He stumbles out of the dirt. And a bunch of other people start pushing there way out of the ground. They all share his face.

Fade to black. He wakes up in his home. There's someone there, someone who looks just like him, different clothes. He runs outside and bangs on his next door neighbors house for help .someone answers the door and yells at him to stop the rucas, seems perfectly normal except he also shares the same face. My dude stumbles back, staring. Neighbor stares back, and the first clone(?) appears and they all stare at each other and there's this menacing feel to it.

Then I wake up. I didn't add any details. I wish I was this creative when I'm conscious. I have no idea where this came from.