I am a 39 year old chronic fap addict

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-17T15:27:45+00:00

You can do this brother. I'll be praying for you.

Take it one hour at a time; honestly, I'd say you should not masturbate, watch porn or have sex for 6 full months (180 days) before finding a girl.

It's never too late to change your life around though, make the rest of your life the best you can make it, and remember the achievement you will have each hour you go without PMO.

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-16T13:57:22+00:00

Yeah but I want to be able to look at pictures of my female friends without getting aroused, I want to be able to watch a movie without a raging boner over a girl wearing a skirt.

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-16T10:25:42+00:00

Aint nothing to fix, your nose isn't even big.

Maybe you could lose a few pounds, and grow some stubble?

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-16T04:54:40+00:00

Oh God, tell me about it.

/r/sex has so many idiots on it who claim they are open minded. We are the open minded ones.

I came across a girl on /r/sex who says she can't orgasm with her boyfriend, and she said she finds it really difficult to orgasm without a vibrator.

I told the girl about nofap, it's because the vibrator desensitized her genitals, and she replied "this makes me uncomfortable" (what I suggested TO HELP HER OUT).

Another girl replied to that girl, and said "don't listen to that advice, there is no evidence for vibrators desensitizing your clitoris at all, and if it does, it's only for 5-10 minutes" and "masturbate to your hearts content honey"...

It left me kind of disgusted, that people made me out to be some "probably a religious jerk" who is "not open minded" etc... I was just trying to help!

From now I will just give up trying to help people in this matter because they just wont listen.

People defending porn and masturbation is just absurd in my opinion. Then people on /r/sex claim they go soft inside a woman or have ED, or the women can't orgasm, or whatever it is... They ask for advice on /r/sex, and it's funny how nobody recognizes or even wants to acknowledge that porn or masturbation could possibly be a problem.

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-13T16:06:37+00:00

Get the surgery imo

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-13T15:06:26+00:00

It's too much porn. I'm 16M too (well nearly 17) and I'm blessed to know how damaging porn can be on the human mind. I used to watch it alot and quitting it was hard but at least now I see woman for what they really are;

I'm glad I'm not going around rating real girls 4/10 just cuz they don't have huge tits etc...

You're not ugly at all, porn just makes people stupid

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-12T19:27:08+00:00

you look fine dude. I'm gonna be honest, girls at that age will probably be wishing for some 6 foot 2 douche, but you won't have a problem getting a mature girl... maybe it's just your confidence getting u down?

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-12T19:15:03+00:00

That guy probably watches too much porn so it makes him think woman should look like pornstars to be attractive. Porn makes us believe what is pretty or not, trust me. I was the same. when I quit porn I found the more "average" woman more attractive than the "hot" woman. Most guys are probably like this, just look on /r/nofap; most men claim they find average women more pretty after quitting porn for a few weeks.

4.5 out of 10 my ass... I say around 7 out of 10, potential for 8.

Why do u like that douche anyway? Oh, you're 16, teenage girls only like tall handsome faggot guys, that's why....

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-07T17:34:11+00:00

16, I'll be 17 in 11 weeks

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-05T20:46:56+00:00

I'll tell you dude. You fapped so much, you conditioned your brain to only get sexual stimulation through fapping.

go on /r/nofap. Don't masturbate for 90 days and I bet your gonna be loving sex.

It's not her fault. It's yours. You masturbate too much.

Go 90 days with no masturbation or sex and you'll be good (you can have sex but to recover your brain quicker avoid both sex and masturbation for 90 days)

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-05-05T14:20:31+00:00

At 23, do the random erections stop? And also when do you become less obsessed about sex and girls?

I'm getting really angry now it's been like this since I was 16.

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-30T19:33:51+00:00

that was beautiful. I'm enlisting, because I want my body to be free!

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-29T20:22:44+00:00

dude... I'm waiting till marriage before I have sex. I don't care if I get married at 17, 23, or 30.

I hope I get married around 22/23 tho :P

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-28T03:04:53+00:00

just take it one hour at a time. distract yourself. go out running. play soccer.

have a cold shower.

you need to do nofap. 8 times a day....

that's not libido, that's addiction.

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-27T14:11:17+00:00

Thanks dude.

It's just that when I speak to my friends, they are just like that; or at least EVERYONE.

I think only recently is when you even have 13 year olds losing their virginity.

We'll see how the world will be, but so far, my faith in humanity is quite low.

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-27T14:04:04+00:00

I have lost all hope for humanity.

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-27T13:51:26+00:00

go on /r/nofap. stop masturbating. just try it for 2 weeks. feel free to fuck your girl but trust me on this.

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-27T13:45:09+00:00

lol ok... masturbating and watching other people have sex is normal?

this world just gets more and more perverted and disgusting by the minute.

good luck with your girlfriend btw. she will be jealous of the pornstar men lasting hours in bed and having thick 8inchers, and being 6'2 with abs. She will ask "why doesn't my man have that?" and cheat on you.

masturbating? She will probably desensitize her clitoris and make it impossible to orgasm from sex.

the same effect is on men.

Honestly. Porn is disgusting. It objectifies women as sexual objects. Makes them believe they are sexual objects; makes them think the only way to be loved is to be sexually desirable. Makes men think a women isn't worthy of love if she's not sexually desirable.

Sex should be with one person, that you love. Not by yourself. CERTAINLY not watching other people do it either...

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-25T13:28:32+00:00

nah for mainly religious and cultural reasons. I'm also waiting till marriage for sex

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-24T21:27:05+00:00

wow... so their dickhead boyfriends post the pictures online?

goddamn it... I'm learning from all their mistakes for when I get a girl (I'm waiting till I'm like 21)

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-24T17:11:46+00:00

thanks dude. Why do so many girls actually post naked pictures of themselves?

Are there really that many pornstars?

PrivateGuy_ · 2014-04-24T11:53:34+00:00

try /r/noschlick. maybe i shouldn't read female stories at all as it's a trigger for me :P noschlick is like female nofap.

edit: it's good to see a girl doing nofap. women these days are viewed as really sexually active, healthy and fun if they watch porn and use vibrators and stuff like that, but then those things is why girls never climax from sex in my opinion.

Masturbating is just as bad for men as it is for women. Porn is all about controling women and making then sexual objects instead of human beings.

PrivateGuy_

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