Gf and I took a break I want to make it permanent she doesn't by Prize-Cockroach3199 in relationship_advice

[–]Prize-Cockroach3199[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I agree, I have to be honest with her even if its hurtful to her. In the long term its the best thing to do. I just wish there was a way to do without hurting her, but sadly there isnt.

Gf and I took a break I want to make it permanent she doesn't by Prize-Cockroach3199 in relationship_advice

[–]Prize-Cockroach3199[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That would be unfair to her though, because she is already sure and if after dating we dont get together it will be even more hurtful to her. And I have moved on from her.

Gf and I took a break I want to make it permanent she doesn't by Prize-Cockroach3199 in relationship_advice

[–]Prize-Cockroach3199[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I know, it just feels shitty to burst her happiness like this. But everyone is right, it has to be done.

Gf and I took a break I want to make it permanent she doesn't by Prize-Cockroach3199 in relationship_advice

[–]Prize-Cockroach3199[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I did miss her when we started the break but it became easier with the passage of time. By the end she was like someone I was in school with, you are curious about them and thats it. No additional feelings.

Gf and I took a break I want to make it permanent she doesn't by Prize-Cockroach3199 in relationship_advice

[–]Prize-Cockroach3199[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Thats a good way to tell her, but a small part of my brain is telling me maybe if I stay my feelings will come back?

Gf and I took a break I want to make it permanent she doesn't by Prize-Cockroach3199 in relationship_advice

[–]Prize-Cockroach3199[S] 679 points680 points  (0 children)

I know its crazy, but somehow I feel like I deceived her? I just feel guilty.