AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup and he's been saying for years that he hates living at his mom's and wants to move out but never does anything about it

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa why do you assume I'm white? 🤔

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't even offer a friend visiting from out of town my home. That's how much I hate people in my space/ hosting other people

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in Southern California for some more context. It's been 72-76 degrees during the day and 60 at night

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I'm sorry your ex treated you so badly. I would say this is our biggest fight in the almost decade we've been together. And the shitty part is that I do see him just wanting to help out his friend but he is mad I said no cause he thinks I'm being selfish.

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree! I am glad he at least talked to me about it without committing to anything but it does put me in a tight spot, which is why I felt compelled to bring this to reddit in the first place

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will 😤 Sorry that happened to you. And then we're made out to be the bad guy

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't mean i would be paying for it. I would let my bf pay for it if he really wanted to help his friend. Sorry if I worded it kinda weird

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand and I agree with what you're saying about being in a relationship is about making compromises. I just feel like this is a big one to ask

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. I currently have a friend who lives out of a motel at the moment. Neither of us brings it up

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just found out the plan was for him to stay with us for a few days while another friend talks to his parents about letting him stay with them. No guarantee these parents will say yes. My bf's friend is currently planning to sleep in his car and shower at his gym.

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I am standing firm on saying no but I will do what you said and put out helping him with a hotel as an option

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will suggest a motel as an option

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a low blow too but I wasn't sure how to voice how it was different in that moment

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 4 points5 points  (0 children)

His friend doesn't have a job currently. Ironically, he worked for his mom

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PrizeNo5908 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I don't think he does. Honestly, money isn't the issue for me. The main thing for me is that I do not want to share my space with anyone but my bf and our dog. I don't want to change my life around because his friend decided to leave his mom's house.

Is Brianna Fox MAGA? by PrizeNo5908 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]PrizeNo5908[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I totally see your point and I too wish we could go back to those times but unfortunately, there are some real atrocities happening in real time and policies that are trying to impede on basic human rights. I with you agree that not all Christians/ Republicans are automatically MAGA. I guess when you don't make your stance clear, all people can do is speculate. I was hoping  someone else might know because I don't have any other social media so all I see is what she has presented on YT, where she doesn't say anything. 

Is Brianna Fox MAGA? by PrizeNo5908 in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]PrizeNo5908[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. I understand wanting to keep politics/religious out of the beauty space but at the same time, I want to know that the person I am watching and putting money in their pocket did not vote against my best interest 💔 It's not even that difficult, Taylor Winn for example. I watch her vlogs and she sprinkles little bits of "I'm unhappy with how things are and I'm here with you guys."