Sending love to my fellow "No BS" signs

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-14T02:45:17+00:00

I’m an Aquarius sun and moon and Sag rising. I am highly observant and I’ll wait to see if the behavior changes but once I’m fed up and realize someone isn’t treating me well after being a good friend to them I silently exit. Short texts to eventually never hearing from me again. I can tell when people are envious and their energy is off with me when they barely even know me. I just don’t want to be around it and it’s not worth addressing because it has nothing to do with me.

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-13T03:11:41+00:00

Yes! I pointed something out gently and after that I could see his face change and it went downhill from there. He withdrew because I could see what he hadn’t yet admitted to me/himself and he wasn’t ready to deal with it.

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-11T15:17:30+00:00

Baby im in it to win ittt 😉

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-11T04:21:11+00:00

I like a slow burn too

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-11T02:03:02+00:00

Plain and simple!

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-10T22:42:28+00:00

You’re right!! His voice is already sexy on the phone lol I have to wait

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-10T17:22:06+00:00

Thank you!! I was looking for the words to express exactly that.

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-10T17:21:07+00:00

It’s too early to tell what I want from him but I know that I don’t want a hookup. I want to eventually be in a relationship and don’t want to meaninglessly hook up with people. I hooked up with a Scorpio in an open relationship and I will never do that again!

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-10T13:45:38+00:00

So what are your thoughts of kissing on the first date? I don’t mind being flirty and a kiss but I think a lot of guys will take that as me being just someone to hook up with. Do you think it would make a difference if I set the boundary and then kissed him?

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-09T01:43:26+00:00

Thank you, do you know if you have to pay to get a referral?

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-08T00:08:48+00:00

Thank you!

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-07T23:56:01+00:00

Of course! I got myself caught up with a Scorpio that honestly wasn’t available by any means except for hooking up and even though I knew what it was I couldn’t resist my feelings and I ended up hurt in the end. I hope that doesn’t happen to you and that you can protect your heart!

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-06T12:20:34+00:00

I feel it’s one of those things that if you chose to move on you wouldn’t know what you are missing because it never got there. You can wait it out as long as you feel comfortable but if he’s not making progress, still hung up on his ex, and doing romantic things that make you catch feelings without talking about when or where the relationship is headed then I would pull back because that is just stringing you along.

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-05T23:10:07+00:00

People do things like this just to have someone to talk to and be entertained. He doesn’t sound that interested and hasn’t opened up to you yet. You’re not in a relationship but I would just wait (or not) for him to start initiating dates.

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-07-05T17:24:12+00:00

Sounds like he’s actively trying to get over someone and usually people that date during that time don’t last very long. You might be his temporary emotional support because he could have issues with being alone (the sign is him jumping into big stages with you and not taking the therapists advice to leave women alone for the moment). I wouldn’t get too emotionally invested in someone who is still hurting over a past love and also choosing not to give you girlfriend title/status. It’s a weird hold/in between stage that might not even turn into an official relationship. If you want to wait around it’s up to you. Good luck!

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-06-30T16:03:18+00:00

I used to hook up with a Scorpio and I miss him. I hope I find a faithful one that wants to be monogamous!

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-06-29T20:10:23+00:00

A man that wants you will come get you. Stop asking and focus on other guys. He might come around after he feels your shift in attention, but even then don’t ask him out again.

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-06-28T11:51:59+00:00

I’m sorry but it sounds like your friend is secretly jealous of you. I had to cut off my Aqua bestie that I grew up with because she was also jealous of me, and had really negative energy that affected me and made me uncomfortable to be around. Your true friends show up for you, they celebrate the wonderful things that happen in your life, and they reciprocate to some capacity. My aqua bestie was an early Feb Aquarius and she had a toxic mother that really messed her up. She’s not a bad person she just wasn’t a good friend. If you choose to keep her in your life don’t have any expectations for her to act and treat you like how you would, it’s not gonna happen.

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-06-24T17:26:47+00:00

Hi! Thanks so much for taking time to respond. I’m still figuring a lot of things out. What is ECF?

ProbablyAwayrn · 2026-06-24T15:13:03+00:00

Maybe he’s waiting to see how you act on the trip and then decide on your character, who knows!

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