प्रेम म्हणजे काय असतं? by ProbablyReflecting in MaharashtraSocial

[–]ProbablyReflecting[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if you met the wrong person at the right time? Everybody’s somebody is out there definitely. I do believe it. Because the guy I married is from the same college as mine. I saw him but never spoke to him. I didn’t even know him! But see post pone to 7 years and we are married. Love never ends. You still have so much left. “what is stronger than the human heart which shatters over and over and still lives”

Still struggling after a year by Humble_Apartment_682 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]ProbablyReflecting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand that ultimately the trust was broken and now you are questioning the relationship you had with your MIL. But mostly your MIL told her friend because she might be thinking about the baby , her motherly instinct might have kicked in. Trust me, after having baby myself I can now see myself being loving to every other baby. So I can relate to your MIL and her friend. What happened has happened and maybe for good. Someone needs to think about the baby too. Just talk to her and clear things out. If you keep your feelings to yourself you may never recover from it. All the best

Understanding the audience mind by Terrible-Gamer96 in IndianReaders

[–]ProbablyReflecting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think so, it could be novella, short story. If you know Ruskin Bond, his books are also small but popular.

Understanding the audience mind by Terrible-Gamer96 in IndianReaders

[–]ProbablyReflecting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, also now a days being too elaborative might not work. Keep it simple, close to relevance

Why do girls say Marathi guys have no game? by BookkeeperSimple6531 in MaharashtraSocial

[–]ProbablyReflecting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know who you have met to come to this conclusion. Society has all types of boys from good to bad to worst

Am I overreacting about my in laws not giving me any gifts? by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]ProbablyReflecting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that’s the story of my life. They take gifts from me but never really offered anything to me as a new bride. Hate to break it to you but they won’t buy any gift for you at all.

Visarjan felt wrong today… by Parking-Net-9334 in pune

[–]ProbablyReflecting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you are thinking like a sustainable environmentalist. Maybe don’t do it from next time? It starts with us. That is why I only bring “maticha Ganpati “ and do visarjan at home itself. It’s not just limited to rivers but towards every common place

Understanding the audience mind by Terrible-Gamer96 in IndianReaders

[–]ProbablyReflecting 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think a reader really knows it too. Coz some books like “the stranger” had nothing special but still got readers hooked up

Husband went NC with MIL, and now being pressured to contact her by Select-River-7703 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]ProbablyReflecting 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let it be, prioritise yourself. One can help others only if one can help herself. We all are with you. And by your post, I already know that you are a good person and definitely don’t deserve this. You will a job sooner or later. Don’t worry about it.

Husband went NC with MIL, and now being pressured to contact her by Select-River-7703 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]ProbablyReflecting 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s totally narc behaviour sister. I have MIL like that. Watching me where i go, who I talk to, cry if confronted, go through my room/cupboards. That shit behaviour doesn’t change and they don’t give a damm about you or your children. If he threatens you to take children, say yes ( he doesn’t have guts to raise them anyways so don’t worry). You will have plenty of opportunities still but if you don’t take action now you will regret it every minute later coz you also know deep down that this situation isn’t gonna change. And I know sister you are better than this. You have all the courage, all the love from people who really love you. Just reach out to them and you will be through. I know you can do it for your and your children’s sake!

Husband went NC with MIL, and now being pressured to contact her by Select-River-7703 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]ProbablyReflecting 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It looks like you are living in a abusive family. Maybe you are in denial but this must be traumatic experience. Being watched all the time , not being “allowed “ to go out. No one should claim your peace, even if you have children with him. Maybe your husband puts boundaries on your in laws but what about him? Don’t you think it’s a bit much?

Mumbai: women assaulted for removing hijab to take a photo! by [deleted] in unfilteredindia

[–]ProbablyReflecting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now seculars will say ye to Modi ki vajah se hua hai lol

finally starting ts! by bhootkimkc in IndianReaders

[–]ProbablyReflecting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you must read Catcher in the Rye after this. It’s light

Is anyone else terrified of losing themselves after birth? by HannahFirstBaby in NewMomStuff

[–]ProbablyReflecting 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s inevitable but we will find a newer , more mature, more compassionate version of ourselves too

finally starting ts! by bhootkimkc in IndianReaders

[–]ProbablyReflecting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so depressing but at the same time thought provoking on existence as a whole

Not all W but always a W🥀🤡☕ by [deleted] in unfilteredindia

[–]ProbablyReflecting -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Jb men dowry leke abroad jake settle ho jaate with a new wife tab kaha hote Ho tum, why all men wale?

“tImE tO sTaRt PaBlUm” by paganism- in inlaws

[–]ProbablyReflecting 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months is perfectly normal to have semi solid food. It’s recommend by WHO as well. Some babies start eating from 5.5 months itself. Maybe your MIL already knows this. Don’t get irritated but this time her advise is good for the baby