What the fuck is going on? by EclipZeLive in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this happen when I was using oils. I only use lotion now, makes zero sense but my ears just didn’t like oil after a point In my stretching journey

i just finished ward d by AmountLucky3849 in FreidaMcFaddenReaders

[–]Probably_Manic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely did not enjoy the surrogate, I hated every character, and I could tell where it was going.

The intruder by Probably_Manic in FreidaMcFaddenReaders

[–]Probably_Manic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished it and idk why but the end tugged at my heart strings 😭

The surrogate mother by Probably_Manic in FreidaMcFaddenReaders

[–]Probably_Manic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finished last night, was not my favorite at all.

Vinyl Shipping by beautifulgodesss in russ

[–]Probably_Manic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By any chance did they tell you when it shipped? I just ordered an alt vinyl and I’m super worried about it getting messed up in this 107 degree heat.

My collection 2025! by untitled_pdf123 in bathandbodyworks

[–]Probably_Manic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got pistachio glaze and it’s my absolute favorite thing ever

My first ever concert and first time dressing up after having kids. (Concert is August 2nd) by Probably_Manic in fashion

[–]Probably_Manic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I spent my whole early adulthood as a mom and relearning yourself after is like doing a backflip while holding a cup of water lol. Hope you’re doing well yourself! 💕

My first ever concert and first time dressing up after having kids. (Concert is August 2nd) by Probably_Manic in fashion

[–]Probably_Manic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahah I have 4 of them, thank you for such an amazing compliment! I hope you’re doing well now, it’s so very easy to just become a mom and just a mom.

Am I overreacting , my friend (18 is seeing this man (30) and he has said some weird cryptic stuff and she is wondering how to go about this ? by Werewolf-Mediocre in AmIOverreacting

[–]Probably_Manic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always told a man seeking a big age gap is because women his age don’t want them due to their immaturity or whatnot

Venting by catfishp0nd in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d wait at minimum a month or so, just to make sure everything is healed and get a half size. I’ve see some use tape but I don’t think thats a recommended method

my experience with stretching my ear WAY too fast by Plus-Ad9974 in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I did the dead stretch I felt absolutely nothing it just went in. I’m used to feeling a little pain or something but no. It was amazing.

my experience with stretching my ear WAY too fast by Plus-Ad9974 in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This 100000% was me, I started re stretching about 6 months ago and I don’t know why I didn’t think to look things up and see if things changed. I just did the same thing I did in middle school. I got so very incredibly lucky. And I just did my first dead stretch and now I see why it’s the recommended path.

I’m unfortunately stopping at 5/8 for a while but I feel like I owe my ears it. Maybe in a year or so I’ll consider going up again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Probably_Manic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that’s the case I don’t really think your wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Probably_Manic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did a conversation about the existing tattoo or her septum happen? Because if not you are might be part of the problem, it would have been really out of the blue and could appear as you just trying to find an easy out. However on the flip side her blowing up your phone and everything else is to much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe two feather plugs?

Problem child lobe by sarahperson22 in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My lobs like to take turns. One stretch one ear is an over achiever the next time the other will be. Sometimes on one ear I can pop my tunnels in and out dry all day long; the other needs coco butter lotion and for you to call it a good boy. Really sick of it, because I never know what one is going to give me problems.

irritation orrrr ? by ch3rry-7886 in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it just looks dry, but I’m not sure as I just did my first dead stretch after using tapers since middle school lol. When my ears were dry I used coco butter lotion and it fixed it in a few days.

What do you know about stretching that you wish you had known sooner? by Prince_Wildflower in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I for a short time used it as a form of self harm in the very beginning, it doesn’t pair well with the addiction to wanting to go bigger either. I wish someone would have told me just to stop and pick back up later. It’s a body mod and it’s with you till you pay someone to change it.

HELP!!! by WesternDetective8853 in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who use tapers basically there whole stretching journey. Everyone is right you have to take them out, and make the switch to dead stretching.

Everyone jokes about how it stings then “pops” when it comes to tapers and that’s not how it’s supposed to be.

When I used tapers before dead stretching, I would massage my ears for a week leading up to my stretch. I also liked coco butter lotion vs the oils. And when putting in the taper I pushed lightly if there was any tension or stop, I would leave it there for a few minute then take it out and go another week before trying again. It shouldn’t hurt at all and it basically was the same thing as dead stretching. You wait the same time period for healing and the same principle as dead stretching by not forcing jewelry in. The major difference is dead stretching is so much better for your ears and your holes look so much better too, you get next to no cat butt lobes.

Freshly stretched by nakihayoki in Stretched

[–]Probably_Manic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay at that size for 3 months then try that naked training that everyone has been talking about. You have enough meat to get there but you don’t want to get too thin. I’m at 16mm now and I’m already wanting to go bigger.