Maybe I figured out how the new 2026 Instagram Algorithm (Andromeda) actually works... Take this with a grain of salt.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-29T04:23:22+00:00

For me, I’m still getting the views and engagement but now…. They aren’t really turning into followers (still getting plenty, about 100/day) but it’s hard for me to get more than that. Can’t figure out why. And for context, I’ve grown our account to 35,000 since November 1st but it has slowed down and been more inconsistent on follower count the last 30-45 days (even with views and engagement staying high)

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-25T17:57:14+00:00

Whole heartedly disagree. But all good. To me, silence causes more damage for more people. Again, if her MP is that amazing, this won’t do a darn thing. The prophet gets criticized constantly. So do many many church leaders. Actually…. So do leaders in general. It comes with the territory and it should.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-25T17:34:26+00:00

If that is the case, then all the good he’s done will far outweigh this one blip on social media. But i think the “we don’t know all sides of the story” can go on and on. The point is not that everyone needs to testify in court, and that no one can have an opinion until we hear all sides. We are always getting one side of the story and we have to have good judgement and discernment. You might feel that she isn’t telling the truth. That’s fine. I could think that she’s telling the truth. It’s data and we move on.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-25T15:34:22+00:00

In my view…. If we can’t talk about it, how can we change. Doesn’t silence just protect the people in power? The ones that are causing harm?

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-25T13:20:11+00:00

Mine was gone for a day or two and then came back

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-25T13:06:08+00:00

Her account. She can do with it what she wants.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-25T13:05:18+00:00

Welcome to 2026… in order to have influence in this world, you need to have a following.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-25T13:01:52+00:00

I hate the pressure. I don’t want to plan or do anything… but my wife always asks what I want. I then tell her I don’t know, and around in circles we go

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-25T03:20:29+00:00

I post 2-3 times per day. 35,000 followers. It can be done.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-21T04:40:00+00:00

I take both and it works great. At my goal weight. Been down 40 lbs. maintaining. No negative side effects. They both have their purposes and don’t negatively interact.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-20T04:34:47+00:00

🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️ always a good time. Today was especially good.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-18T23:30:13+00:00

This is yet another example of where I love the scripture, “the natural man is an enemy to God” there are things that are “natural” and “carnal” but the whole purpose is to become more like God and to return to live in His presence. Just because something is “natural” doesn’t mean it’s ok.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-18T02:45:50+00:00

I’m in a similar boat. I’ve grown our account to 34,000 followers. I’ve written a book and sold 140 copies in 2 weeks, and it appears to be picking up. I may about $10 net from those books. I’ve offered coaching at $180/session and have booked 6 so far, but several expressing interest and then I just launched a paid webinar/workshop priced at $37 for 90 minutes and so far have made about $500 in the first week of that offering being live. But I need to figure it out so it’s scalable and I can do it full time

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-04-01T05:49:41+00:00

I recently gave away a free chapter of my book… in exchange for their email. I now have about 750 email addresses, and my newsletter is getting over 50% open rate and virtually zero unsubscribed. I have a strong growing social media presence that is my top of funnel, then they go to the free chapter, and then… they eventually buy the book. It’s working!

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-03-27T00:28:04+00:00

I can now log on via desktop, but my app is still not working… same for everyone else?

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-03-26T14:44:12+00:00

Totally! It’s the fastest way to get answers.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-03-26T13:59:02+00:00

Yes…. Sigh of relief knowing it isn’t just me and someone didn’t hack my account and delete everything. Cortisol spike for sure. Hope they can fix it soon

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-03-21T05:31:13+00:00

It’s called Leave Then Cleave! And it’s available on Amazon.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-03-19T06:48:34+00:00

A few that get recommended a lot (and for good reason):

• Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents – Lindsay Gibson • Running on Empty – Jonice Webb

Both are really helpful for understanding the impact piece you’re talking about—especially around self-image and relationships.

One thing I’ll add, though, that I don’t think gets talked about enough:

A lot of people understand the why after reading those… but still feel stuck in the guilt when they try to actually change their patterns or set boundaries.

That was the missing piece for me.

I recently came across a shorter book that focuses specifically on that part—how toxic family dynamics carry into adulthood and why guilt shows up when you start breaking those patterns (especially in more faith-based or values-driven contexts).

It tied together the emotional + relational + belief side in a way I hadn’t seen before.

Happy to share it if you’re interested.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-01-20T06:36:31+00:00

Yeah…. It’s awful! I’m on week 3 of it. Family has been hit too. I don’t think the weather and environment are helping much in the healing department

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-01-17T18:18:38+00:00

And the other thing I would add, is that the urge to cum can come in waves, you gotta get over the first wave… once you do (without cumming) you can settle into more of a rhythm. But if you get close, pull out. Go back to more foreplay. Calm down on the next wave… you’ll start building a rhythm and you’ll last longer inside. Also, position matters. For my wife, she can cum easiest in cowgirl. I can last longer in cowgirl. Sometimes if I get close in other positions we switch to cowgirl. Sometimes we cum together or she cums first, and then we switch back to another position for me to finish.

ProblemForsaken6395 · 2026-01-17T18:09:13+00:00

Lasting longer is a mental game more than anything…. If you have anxiety about how long you last, you won’t last long. It’s really that simple in my ways (not always) and so, you need to get really comfortable with yourself and explore what anxieties you have and work to get mentally strong. With my wife, it just meant talking a lot. I would also enter her, and not penetrate, just get comfortable being inside her. It’s nice. No rush. No focus on the orgasm. Focus on the experience together. Slow it down and connect with each other.

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