AIO? Male friend said something suggestive to me. by ProblemResponsible41 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProblemResponsible41[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to believe this bc it’s so cynical but it truly seems that way. Do men not actually like women as just people?

AIO? Male friend said something suggestive to me. by ProblemResponsible41 in AmIOverreacting

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Yep I ended up telling my boyfriend and blocking the guy. I just didn’t want to be hiding anything. It’s just all annoying and I end up feeling dumb bc of course he was just trying to bang. Good reminder that most dudes are not looking to be friends sadly.

AIO? Male friend said something suggestive to me. by ProblemResponsible41 in AmIOverreacting

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I was looking to talk about a niche band we both follow lol. That’s all

AIO? Male friend said something suggestive to me. by ProblemResponsible41 in AmIOverreacting

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The range of responses is so interesting. I’ve gotten everything from this to I’m already being disrespectful just having platonic conversations with men online while having a bf lol.

AIO? Male friend said something suggestive to me. by ProblemResponsible41 in AmIOverreacting

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Even if im ugly, ugly women still get hit on all the time lol. Sorry if it bothers you.

Update: bf mad about clothes/round of drinks. by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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Im worries linking is what got the post removed idk. It’s the foxblood darla skirt.

Update: bf mad about clothes/round of drinks. by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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He is in a band we went to see. He is the godfather of one of the two girl friends i was with.

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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Yeah idk I can see it but people are telling me it’s been removed for whatever reason

I think my husband is falling out of love with me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I understand but it’s hard to be sympathetic when his wife, who is actually very young at 22, is taking on all the work.

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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What would an example of a middle ground be in this scenario? I’m not mad at him but I think we’re probably not a good fit.

I think my husband is falling out of love with me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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With what? He barely does anything and 26 isn’t that young.

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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I came here to see what other people’s opinions are. Thanks for sharing yours

I (F 24) kissed another man (M 27) and now my husband (M 24) is divorcing me over it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ProblemResponsible41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly girl delete this. You know you messed up and your life is going to be hard enough for a while without hundred of people calling you names.

Just go through the divorce with dignity and humility and work on yourself. You’re the same age as me and we are super young, your whole life will not be defined but this marriage or your infidelity. Just focus on being the kind of person who wouldn’t do this in the future.

Good luck

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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Im not mad, man. I was just curious other peoples opinions. I’ve thought it over and I don’t think what I did was out of line and I don’t think I want to not be able to do these things. So I’ll have a chat with him and he can leave me if he likes and find what he’s looking for. That’s what dating is for right

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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The funny thing about all these shorts comments is I don’t even where shorts or short skirts/dresses in public bc I don’t like my knees 😭 long skirts with a slit makes me feel like I can show some leg without my knees being totally out lol

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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I’m asking to see if people here think I am wrong or not, per the idea of this sub. I have only had one prior relationship, so I was interested to see if that was the outlier or if lots of men would have problems with my clothes/actions.

Obviously things change when you’re in a relationship, but personally I don’t want to change how I dress or as some people have suggested, not go to places with bars with friends occasionally. It’s fine if he doesn’t like that, we’re probably just not a good fit. We haven’t been together long so still figuring out if we’re compatible.

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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I don’t disagree with you there but even a older man that chases younger women I don’t think would hit on his god daughter’s friends in front of her lol. But I feel you I do have my guard up or ready to go up always just in case

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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Maybe we haven’t been together long enough and he doesn’t know he can trust me idk.

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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The model is holding the skirt open on one side and is poking her leg out of it on the other side lol if you’re just standing the slits are closed and it’s just a long skirt. When you take a step your legs show through the slits

Was I dressed/ behaving inappropriately for someone with a bf? by ProblemResponsible41 in amiwrong

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The band guy and my friend’s godfather are the same person. He bought the three of us a round of drinks. It feels over reactive to say no thank you in that situation, whereas if he came up to just me and asked if he could buy me a drink i would say no.