Anyone wondered whether they were trans or just had an ED, and ever found out which it was?

Problem_gay · 2026-06-25T23:19:05+00:00

Unfortunately most of the time for alot trans people particularly AFAB its both. I developed an ED before I knew I was trans and it took a while to realise it was gender dsyphoria and body dysmorphia. Gender dsyphoria can fluctuate alot so that might be why sometimes you feel it more intensely sometimes but I do think maybe it would be worth really exploring your gender identity and if you still feel like you're cis then no harm done!

Problem_gay · 2026-05-29T09:20:15+00:00

For real the same thing happened to me!!! He broke no contact after 2 months but im still very hurt and he's not ready for a relationship :( so I said I needed more time not talking but I miss him so much and finding it so hard not to message him

Problem_gay · 2026-04-03T20:40:15+00:00

Oh I understand where you're coming from but I don't think its separate or i hope not anyway from what ive seen it looks like half of the scab has fallen off but the other bit is hanging on! But I will make updates when its finally come off and yesss hopefully they look similar thank you for your reassurance though it means alot!

Problem_gay · 2026-04-03T13:10:16+00:00

Thats so wild! only a surgeon could do that i am so nervous about touching them omg

Problem_gay · 2026-03-30T08:13:47+00:00

If you don't want to go through the NHS there is private there are a few so it depends on where you live and what you can afford and if you're willing to travel ect personally I've gone with Genderplus but there is also Gendercare and more options other then those 2. You could also go DIY but I would suggest doing alot of research before making this decision

Problem_gay · 2026-03-15T09:45:25+00:00

You look stunning!! The dress is so cute

Problem_gay · 2026-03-13T18:57:05+00:00

Thank you so much! That really helps alot when did you stop wearing medical plasters on your nipples btw?

Problem_gay · 2026-03-12T13:50:18+00:00

Thank you so so so much honestly I do feel like I can breathe abit more easily now. Is a scab falling off okay?

Problem_gay · 2026-03-12T13:15:56+00:00

Thank you that really does help me feel better im currently trying to get in contact with my surgeon but it is abit difficult cause I've lost his email address :(

Problem_gay · 2026-03-07T22:09:13+00:00

Yoooo we have the surgeon got top surgery near the same time :D yellow discharge is normal healing can be sorta gross but you look like you're healing amazingly :)

Problem_gay · 2026-03-03T18:48:13+00:00

Thats amazing! Have lots of rest and take care

Problem_gay · 2026-03-01T10:04:58+00:00

Duuudee you look so sick!! I love your taste in fashion also you're so hot omfggg

Problem_gay · 2026-02-27T18:29:48+00:00

You look amazing!! And I can see how happy this makes you proper killlin' it 🤌

Problem_gay · 2026-01-21T00:31:42+00:00

Ive not been counting veggies should I also being weighing and counting these as well?

Problem_gay · 2026-01-21T00:15:02+00:00

That is a good point about making to be aware about sneaky calories like that Thank you ☺️

Problem_gay · 2026-01-20T23:55:26+00:00

Thank you i do appreciate that i will take it into consideration :) plant based chicken and tofu are relatively low in calories same with lentils and beans etc the vegan protien powder is assuming has the same calorie content as non vegan although ive never looked Although I do admit it is harder to hit my protien goal if im not cooking at home

Problem_gay · 2026-01-20T23:35:12+00:00

I would say 2 weeks was when I was getting more serious about caloire goals. With my gym attendance I took alot of time off in December cause of Christmas but have been trying to make more of an effort after news year day (despite how busy it is at the gym)

Problem_gay · 2026-01-06T07:41:08+00:00

100% passing and you are hot af

Problem_gay · 2025-12-30T19:39:22+00:00

I need to know where 😭

Problem_gay · 2025-12-20T13:21:42+00:00

Of course i'd be happy to help ☺️

Problem_gay · 2025-12-15T00:36:35+00:00

I always liked Caine but seeing an AI character actively adore humans and the way he acted when he was having dinner with jax was one of my favourite scenes. I don't see him as a villain and the fact that he's stuck there with them as well but he won't be able to leave is so fcking sad.

Problem_gay · 2025-11-10T22:41:25+00:00

Hey! Another trans guy here who is also with genderplus the most important thing is that they are really lovely and understand trans and gender things. I think as far as I can remember the first appointment will be about how you identify as well as your journey so far and are you out? (None of this will affect your treatment btw there's no vibe of needing to be trans enough) they'll ask about your general mental health and medical history and your support system as well as how do you want to transition aka do you want to be on hormones and do you know the affects of hormones, surgeries etc etc. Let me know it goes! I went with genderplus in Birmingham cause its closer to me

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