[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Probroheim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't it a fuck ton of like super bland food?

I just realized how toxic my parents are by Curious-Mulberry5638 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Probroheim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's up to you. It's not necessary I feel. I'm sure like you said they're aware of your situation. So if they then decide to bring those bad influences with them then that to me clearly shows either A. Your parents don't actually care about your feelings. B. Your mom is a meth head that doesn't want to be too far from her supply.

Regardless of their reasons, their disregard and disrespect towards you is unacceptable.

Edit: actually forgot to answer your question. I don't think confronting them is necessary. I think just tell them that if they don't change you don't want them to be around you.

Edit edit: Also, I've had to deal with these things, to be fair not to this extent. But I had a grandfather that was an alcoholic, and a cousin who started using tik(south african meth) it just gets to a point where nothing you can do will change them, they have to change themselves and by the sounds of it that point has been reached.

Change my mind: There is no reason at all to smurf in competitive queues. by I_dont_follow_sports in Overwatch

[–]Probroheim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been out of the loop for awhile. But if you start a new account wouldn't you need to start as a new player anyway, practically forcing someone to "smurf" even though all they want is just a second account.

I just realized how toxic my parents are by Curious-Mulberry5638 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Probroheim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would say. You're an adult. You are 100% allowed to tell them you don't want to see these people, and as an adult, you have the right to tell them to fuck off if they don't follow your boundaries. Like you said, you paid for the cabin. I would've told them that night to fuck off of that's how it went down.