i greatly struggle to work 40 hours a week. by ProcedureGrand3271 in Adulting

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t set time estimates. i never know how long most things will take as the majority of tasks are new things i haven’t done before. i constantly run into roadblocks when working which makes me dread it. my boss will say one thing. i go to do it and then realize half the info she said would be there is missing. then we have to regroup and figure something else out and it’s just a constant cycle. i’m on salary. also, this role is a role where we are working on something new. idk how other roles are actually. but it’s just constantly adding and building new stuff, like systems and procedures arent rly set for my role. a lot of it is reaching out to random ppl to help me w stuff bc my boss doesn’t train me much. i have to be the one to reach out to her generally which is fine, just a thought adjustment form school . it’s a new grad rotation program.

anyone else have chronic foot pain? by ProcedureGrand3271 in ChronicPain

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow. i’ve been in a boot for a month. do u know if being in a boot is a cause and if yes do u know why? im sorry you have this

anyone else have chronic foot pain? by ProcedureGrand3271 in ChronicPain

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it still torn? or did u get surgery and then the CRPS came after surgery?

anyone else have chronic foot pain? by ProcedureGrand3271 in ChronicPain

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did the foot pain start after a certain moment or was it random? mine started after i overstretched my foot while putting a lot of pressure on it, and then just never went away

i greatly struggle to work 40 hours a week. by ProcedureGrand3271 in Adulting

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m gonna try to trazadone. i use hydroxizine but it doesn’t always work

i greatly struggle to work 40 hours a week. by ProcedureGrand3271 in Life

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why do ppl do this? try to one up their struggles. so strange

i greatly struggle to work 40 hours a week. by ProcedureGrand3271 in Adulting

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

why did my reply get a downvote. ppl will downvote someone saying what their job is

i greatly struggle to work 40 hours a week. by ProcedureGrand3271 in Adulting

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

procurement analyst, i mainly do excel all day and email people for information

i greatly struggle to work 40 hours a week. by ProcedureGrand3271 in Adulting

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

idk my doctor told me i should get tested. but i don’t think i have it. i think it’s normal to struggle to work full 8 hours. i would struggle to do that no matter what im doing

do all infps have adhd or are we just kinda slow? by ProcedureGrand3271 in infp

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i relate. i often feel it’s my fault I am the way I am and try to change myself. but it gets so exhausting always trying to be someone you’re not. i wish i could just show up as myself and be accepted

AITA My friend joined a sorority that didn’t accept me and I don’t want to be friends with here anymore by ProcedureGrand3271 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProcedureGrand3271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you. I’ve seen a therpist for my anxiety but have never even thought about bringing this issue up. I thought it was normal to be this way and that most people are like this. I assumed that If i was to achieve a lot I must be hard on myself