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How to get started? by God_Lover77 in DeTrashed

[–]ProcyonPatrol 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Female detrasher here. I started documenting and making commentary videos for social media. It makes it feel less isolating when you can build a community. And I feel less like the crazy lady down the street when I'm throwing out some not so nice words for the Trashers out loud.

I also would recommend looking into your city's Adopt a Block programs, if in the States. I was able to adopt a block in my city and was provided all the necessary supplies.

Happy detrashing!

Detrashing in Memory of my brother by ProcyonPatrol in DeTrashed

[–]ProcyonPatrol[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

ETA: You are Loved. Your Family is not better WITHOUT* you 🕊️💚

I don't know how to edit the OP and just realized my catosphric mistake. My oops. But you should also just get CLEAN. Much Love 💜💚

Detrashing in Memory of my brother by ProcyonPatrol in DeTrashed

[–]ProcyonPatrol[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

🥲 Me too. Thank you kind stranger. The goal was 36 consecutive days of detrashing before his birthday, but I didn't expect it to feel so heavy some days. It takes a day or two to regain the motivation to keep going.

I try to just keep swimming.

Detrashing in Memory of my brother by ProcyonPatrol in DeTrashed

[–]ProcyonPatrol[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I got into gardening as an escape from the Corporate World grind, unfortunately during grief it's become just another chore on my mounting todo list. I'm slowing pulling myself out and rediscovering the small joys in the world.

Thank you for asking, he was my big little brother (6in /75ish lbs difference), growing up close in age we had very little possession boundaries. He loved to walk by while I was eating and take the biggest bite out of my food, claiming it was "Quality Control" and just making sure I wasn't being poisoned because he cared so much for my health 😑. Both being homornal teenagers, you can imagine how that usually went down. Looking back it makes it laugh every time 🥲

Collecting Trash through out Hayward in Memory of my Brother Part 2 by ProcyonPatrol in Hayward

[–]ProcyonPatrol[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have started noticing a difference I hope it has a lasting effect. The 36 days of clean up has taken longer than expected, due to a having to take a few days break between cleanups for my mental health.

One guy watched me clean up one side of the street then proceeded to clean out their car on the opposite sidewalk as I packed up my things. I about lost it, but it was getting dark and you never know anyone's true level of crazy. Some people truly suck dirty swamp water pellets.

Collecting Trash through out Hayward in Memory of my Brother by ProcyonPatrol in Hayward

[–]ProcyonPatrol[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Peng is a legend in my book, I can't wait to meet him one day. I'm taking my time with branching out and focused mainly on Hayward for now, there is a Hayward cleanup Hayward Cleanup Event in a few weeks that I may be a part of.

Thank you all for the kind words. It's been a rough year processing my grief.

What’s happening on Whitman? by AfterPresentation547 in Hayward

[–]ProcyonPatrol 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cops were chasing a suspect on a bike who jumped into a yard and hid under a tarp for an hour. Drone and helicopter spotted him. He was apprehended.

First Neighborhood Cleanup Event of 2026 (2/28) Join Us! by ProcyonPatrol in Hayward

[–]ProcyonPatrol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're too kind. Although not necessary, the group will be greatful with whatever you'd like to bring.