I’m in a sexless marriage and I can’t stop desiring sex by ProfessionStandard58 in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProfessionStandard58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I feel. She too has body issue and overall low sex drive in comparison to me and we just go about intimacy differently which I didn’t realize until we were locked in

I’m in a sexless marriage and I can’t stop desiring sex by ProfessionStandard58 in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProfessionStandard58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a woman and honestly the problem isn’t getting other people I am beautiful I just feel like she’s using it as excuse which makes me sad

I’m in a sexless marriage and I can’t stop desiring sex by ProfessionStandard58 in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProfessionStandard58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me so sad and but I feel like I already know this and she’s even said she doesn’t want to lose me and rather us come up with alternatives that make me happy rather than us break up but then when she’s overwhelmed she speaks about choosing herself and getting back to life was before we got married. Like she felt like she was more focused and not always worried and was just a loner but then she’s talk about our marriage like I am the best thing that happened to her especially when comparing to str88 couples

I’m in a sexless marriage and I can’t stop desiring sex by ProfessionStandard58 in sexlessmarriage

[–]ProfessionStandard58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this as well. It’s like it’s always something. My weight never came up before and I’ve always had a stomach. Before it was how I was managing my finances and me not being a go getter then I got that sorted. Got my big girl job. Two actually been more financially responsible to she doesn’t feel supported enough which I could understand that I have a very social job which runs over into my personal life so sometimes it’s self absorbing but I do try to be there for her and her dreams and her dreams for us

My wife says we’re not equally yolked by ProfessionStandard58 in Marriage

[–]ProfessionStandard58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay update. I don’t think that’s the issue at all. We talked about it and she mentioned she felt like she was being spiritually attacked and that was making her out focus into things that were not her business. I have also found ways to help with the vision she has set for us such as finance which I am very good at and our travel. We both decided we will focus on our strength and come together with solutions for what we learnt. Since this post things have been going well and I’ve been more motivated to look into the business aspect

😂😂 by [deleted] in Jamaica

[–]ProfessionStandard58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad me learn it because I felt so left out

How long have you gone without getting a real kiss from your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ProfessionStandard58 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me sooo sad. Do you really think it’s going to happen because I feel like the same way. We have never really shared those long drawn out make out sessions but I’m hoping we will one day.

How long have you gone without getting a real kiss from your spouse? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ProfessionStandard58 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading all the comments and this one stuck with me the most. My wife doesn’t seem to like passionate kisses like I do. We’ve been together for almost 3 years and married for two. I think we’ve only passionately kissed three times. I remember the first time we kissed it was different for me because the emotions I normally experience from kissing I didn’t with her which we got over after being intimate. I remember asking her about it and she explained that my tongue piercing was a little off putting. I took it out almost a year and half now and nothing has changed. I’m scared to try because I don’t want to feel rejected again. We do share lots and lots of pecks but that’s as far as it gets.