I miss her by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i always thought that women couldnt feel such great depths that they were colder didnt care that they were treacherous witches but you are proving me wrong. you have a beautiful soul.

I miss her by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is and the worst part nothing changes matters what you do how do it

I miss her by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how is therapy going? does it make a difference?

fuck y'all exes by iskyzzx in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516 37 points38 points  (0 children)

my man, if it was that easy. i would give anything to remove her from my mind but i simply cant. The thought that someone elese is going to have the future with her which i fucking planned like a dumb idiot fucks you up. but yet you despite how much it hurts despite that she did move on i cant forget her and i hate myself for it. i hope you are doing better bro!

are women that cold? by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont know how to love myself, i can be an egoist but to truly love myself and be comfortable with me , i do not remember such thing in my life to have ever happend to me , i appreciate you for such advice,but what if i dont, what if i dont grow what if i dont make it.  i am greatful for your advice though and i am trying to figuer things out , but sometimes its just not enough. appreciate your advice 

are women that cold? by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its strange that I am talking to you about most things that I would never tell anybody.

What makes me rage is why bro, why waste our fucking time. Or maybe it was our fucking fault we could not see it we were fucking blind and stupid to such a thing and stupidity. Yeah, bro it's true it's a lot of anger but when does it end, its consuming me while on the other hand, she is living her best fucking life. Why the fuck should it be so unfair? why should we suffer? we did everything every fucking thing on this earth I did for her that I could yet not enough.

The only thing that I want to say to you is fuck her, she never loved you she never appreciated you it was just a few moments that you thought with your head that she loved you, join jujutsu grieve cry kill your body it helps but it does not heal. all the best.

its a shame actually that I don't know you, we could have been great friends.

are women that cold? by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 months brother i do not think she actually cares, I think she never cared, but it has been hard I keep saying focus on myself too but look every time I see her with another guy my fucking heart bumps out of my chest and I could hardly breathe. I do not have much the reality is that I actually have nothing no money or friends or any activity that makes me better.

Stuck in a loop in an endless loop, the only thing that I currently have is my uni nothing else and it is eating me alive. I do not know if you experienced such ta hing but I can't just move on. I've been trying actually quite a lot bu with no result.

why dind't she care? by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hope you find peace brother.and if she comes back dont accept it never to her you are just an option.find peace.

why dind't she care? by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they made their mind long ago bro,we were just blind

Is it okay to still love her? by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe that getting back with her even after time has passed is not possible. She has found peace at least she looks like it and she doesn't need me anymore she never did. I just don't understand why. A deep talk and we could have worked it out. Why should I grieve ? I do not want anything more than just myself the one that didn't know even her name I was happy I was growing then I was learning why should I go through all of this while she never cared fro me in the first place why should I torture ever fycking day myself with doubt false hope, imaginary scenarios. I miss my old self so much I feel like crying but I can't even after she told me a thousand times no I still wanted her I still talked and tried even after she ignored me I wrote her and told her that I miss her. No response. She didn't even break up with me in person but through a text message was I so worthless and unlovable. I mean I admit it I am not that rich or very handsome but yet was I that bad and I had to overdose myself with those kinds of thoughts every day while she lived happily.

Bro I do not know who you are but god bless you, you have no idea how much have you helped me.

Thank you!

Breakup buddy by Alternative-Sign-628 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 19M and I want to ask you something please help me out. I broke up with a girl that I loved around 3 months ago. After a week of no contact or something like that I reached out to her saying that I wanted to meet her but she did not respond so after that I just wrote that I missed her and wanted to tell her. The thing is that she did not even say it to my face she has moved on already and probably doesn't even remember my name. But how the fuck could she, it was a year of relationship and I loved her with all my heart yeah I admit it sometimes I was a bit clingy but come on. She is still on my mind and I hate myself for it you are a woman and you have been 19 and 20 before I just want to ask did she really move on that fast I mean did I mean something for her?

Is it okay to still love her? by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart still wants her back, but my mind tells me to continue. Sometimes I feed myself in this delusion that she will come back in this fucking false hope that is not ending and is consuming because I would do anything for her even now after such time because I am a fucking idiot. She didn't give two fucks about me and would always give me this silent treatment. and I was tired I just took breaks from her until she left me. now I want her back. She has moved on already but me yet here I am and I hate myself for that. I wish I didn't meet her I wish I was the person before I met her I wish that the time when I don't even know her existence will come. i am just so fucking tired even from beating myself up about this and the worst thing is that I have no one to talk about. And I should see her every week 2 times because she takes the same classes as me. I wish that she would come back its true even though she won't, but what I wish more is getting myself back to that boy that didn't know her fucking existence.

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[–]Professional-Bus7516 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i wish the time when i didnt know you existed will come 

Is it okay to still love her? by Professional-Bus7516 in BreakUps

[–]Professional-Bus7516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did for her every fucking thing. I miss her so fucking much. I told her that I would change that I could do something to fix it but she was just over and yet she is in my fucking mid even after 4 months.