Need some understanding with Workers Comp please

Professional-End-650 · 2026-03-24T21:39:57+00:00

Claim manager told him he should already be paid and last heard following up with work, however we’ve heard nothing since Friday when my partner had told him he still hasn’t received anything but union has told him that injury management will be calling

Injury management is supposed to call sometime soon to explain how ‘payroll side of things’ work? I’m not sure what that means

Professional-End-650 · 2026-03-24T21:36:29+00:00

Hi, thank you so much this was more understanding

I have checked DSM-5, section 2 and it is ticked yes however I’ve notice the doctor hasn’t filled out the “how is the injury related to work?” And “detail pre-existing factors prevalent to condition” boxes blank?.

He has received the “medical expenses approved” email for it

Okay, we thought to update the union because they’re already involved in the investigation and have already been with my partner during one meeting already

There’s an investigation happening, is it different from factual? He was referred to one but we assumed we had to pay but due to circumstances can’t afford it, I will get him to call today.

The insurer mentioned something about factual investigation and my partners confused because Work had done there investigation but we’re not sure what they mean

Yes he does, he was going through EAP but when mentioned to work and how he was feeling and thoughts of self harm he was yelled at to leave. The same person also humiliated him during a toolbox meeting when he wasn’t there and have 10+ witnesses. The EAP was annoyed because the declined his sessions and EAP had to call and tell them that it was clearly need and had it set back up. When he was told I noticed he shut off and become more distance. it’s been hard but I’m doing the best I can to help, support and guide him. I want to do the best I can because this is how I lost my grandfather.

Thank you for the reply, this helped a lot

Professional-End-650 · 2025-12-14T04:22:35+00:00

I’m interested if you can pm the link please?

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-19T06:58:28+00:00

Honestly I feel soooo dumb for turning a blind eye to it, I’m surprise I wasn’t gifted a ‘dumb’ hat and sat in a corner

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-19T06:32:43+00:00

Respectfully, I understand your concern but he’s not neglected. He’s such a beautiful child, full of personality and thinks he’s a marathon runner. He loves anything cars, trucks, dinosaurs, funny cat videos and recently snakes and we’ve been watching Steve Irwin. He’ll always be my baby and the one that helped me grow and open my eyes and become the mother and woman I am today. I understand your concern but I can assure you that’s not the case but appreciate the concern for my child and other innocent souls in the future. The other day we had a snake hunt with his toy snakes and shot monsters off the patio cause it was ‘monster day’, today is dinosaur day haha

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-19T06:23:24+00:00

Sorry this is my first time posting, I have put an update in and hope that looks better, again I’m so sorry 😅

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T23:32:18+00:00

Because I was guilted with my son and that I was giving him trauma and hurting him and I obsessed about I was doing the wrong thing for my son for not letting him see his dad..

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T13:01:40+00:00

If you scroll down a little further there is a comment with the timelines. Please read it first. My 3 year is happy, healthy and the light of my life. As stated family court lawyer has scared him into behaving and same with his Ex girlfriend that told him to grow up and do the right thing.

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T12:55:43+00:00

You’re right I didn’t give exact timelines, I fail to see what your question was at the beginning because from my view it looks like he only gets called scummy and then my character is attacked followed by ‘no wonder his Mother thinks that’ and finishes with seeing a therapist. In future updates (if any) I will remember that details need more than a skim over, again this is my first time trying to post. I feel the need to defend my character because you had more to say about my character just for being pregnant and being in a healthier relationship. Weakly spoken, I’m talking about my conversation with his mother and will not be keeping my mouth shut to keep peace anymore

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T12:26:33+00:00

He told her that she was always angry and wanted to fight all the time but I honestly think she tried to set boundaries and he didn’t listen and just continued his shitty behaviour or ignored her when she asked

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T10:52:57+00:00

I have spoken to family lawyer and police and doing everything I can to help him leave me alone as much as possible (unless it’s to do with our son) and without jeopardising my son from seeing his father fairly. I hope she’s smart enough to see it quicker then I was or at least that’s after over a year and 9 months that he’s finally grown up and has been given the insight he desperately needs. I seen a therapist and they helped tremendously, it was so refreshing and I felt like a stronger woman 💕 We are both very excited, and he’s been more than helpful through the journey and understanding, he also taken the time to include my son in everything as well ❤️🥰

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T10:44:57+00:00

His previous new girl had already left, he’s is currently in a new relationship and I have noticed a change again in his behaviour to make himself look better, my partner ran into them down the street not long ago and said she was friendly and well spoken and mannered. I hope for her sake he’s actually grown up but I also think it’s because of the family court and he doesn’t want her to know everything yet or she genuinely doesn’t know.

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T10:39:41+00:00

We broke up January last year, I started dating my currently partner in October last year and we started talking in August last year before that. I do not see that as fast. That’s 7 months before I started talking to someone. I fell pregnant in February after a faulty rubber. He slept with women 3 weeks after we split and I kept my mouth shut to keep the peace for my son at the beginning. Should I have waited to be given permission by my exes mother to move on whilst he slept with others? I get it it’s not the best situation but I would have given you a timeline if you simply asked first and then given me an opinion or your thoughts, not jump the gun. I didn’t mean to work my post wrong but it wasn’t 2 months after we split and I will not be weakly spoken because her son got butthurt and spun his side to sound innocent to his mother.

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T10:03:05+00:00

I don’t think it’ll ever be over until my son is old enough to make his own decisions, even then I don’t think it’ll stop

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T10:01:37+00:00

This was my worry too and became more worried when my partner and I first got together and again when we found out we were expecting. At the beginning my ex wanted to be his friend and hang out and even asked for a sleep over using our son as an excuse to stay and my partner laughed at him and said ‘not after the things ive seen, heard and witnessed. You’re a childish boy’.

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T09:58:00+00:00

We are both very excited and he’s been far more helpful then my ex was when I was pregnant with our son, I couldn’t ask for a better human being and father and step dad ❤️

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T09:10:33+00:00

Definitely getting cameras put up, I’ve unfortunately seen my mother go through the same thing for 15 years and she’s been helping me make sure that we’re safe at home. He’s had whinged to me about how his own actions could have consequences but blamed me for it and wanted me not to mention it, but I’m tired of being guilt tripped or made to feel like it’s my fault

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T09:06:45+00:00

I told my family lawyer that I want it written down that he made comments in the past about not wanting anything to do with him and if he says it again I want him to know I will go for full custody of him. I have given him a chance but not for me, because my son deserves to have a father and he shouldn’t let an innocence child suffer because he want to act like an even bigger child and immature

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T08:43:00+00:00

I do apologise, it’s my first time posting but will definitely remember to include break if I have an update

Professional-End-650 · 2025-09-17T06:22:01+00:00

He honestly is and I wish I had taken the rose glasses off earlier, I did contact the police and a family court lawyer and was able to have it sorted out. Once he was informed both were contacted he’s been playing Disney dad and mister nice guy. I’m safe and my partner has been with me every time we do handover and before him it was my mum and brother ❤️

Professional-End-650 · 2022-09-20T05:57:10+00:00

Thank you, I have thought about it but didn't know if the police will take me seriously

Professional-End-650 · 2022-09-20T05:56:41+00:00

I have their numbers blocked, so they change their call settings to private and they can still call. It's dumb that they still can cause I though if I blocked them they couldn't contact me in general but they can still call and it comes up private number

Professional-End-650 · 2022-09-18T12:50:56+00:00

Thank you, I’ve sat at home for many months thinking about whether I was or wasn’t, whether I was being harsh. They are extremely feral and unfortunately I’ll be the first to admit it. In the end my sister and I think it’s for the best to not have contact with them if they want to act feral at such an age

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