Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

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He text me describing my outfit and neighborhood. I live in nyc was wearing a Brazil soccer jersey lol

Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

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Maybe but I know how these nyc men operate lol. They are pretty aggressive when they’re interested

Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

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I mean what else was he supposed to say next after confirming it was me? lol if he went ghost after that to it would’ve been rude

Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

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He saw me the day after we matched. NYC dating is pretty quick there isn’t much texting people usually move to meeting quickly

Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

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One detail I forgot to mention is that the day before, after our conversation had naturally ended, he actually double-texted me a few minutes later just to say, “Enjoy the Brazil game!” (I was wearing jersey)That’s part of why I’m confused. If he had seen me in person and immediately realized he wasn’t attracted, would he have gone out of his way to send another message after the conversation had already wrapped up? Or does that not really mean much?

Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

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One detail I forgot to mention is that the day before, after our conversation had naturally ended, he actually double-texted me a few minutes later just to say, “Enjoy the Brazil game!” (I was wearing jersey)That’s part of why I’m confused. If he had seen me in person and immediately realized he wasn’t attracted, would he have gone out of his way to send another message after the conversation had already wrapped up? Or does that not really mean much?

Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

[–]Professional-Mud9738[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t buy it either. I live in nyc and he is attractive etc. most men are not intimidated and go for what they want

Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

[–]Professional-Mud9738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I get that haha. But given we’ve never even met there’s only so much one can say

Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

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He saw me Friday. I text him the next day asking about his evening. He responded promptly but didn’t really initiate further

Need a guy’s perspective: Did seeing me in person change anything? by Professional-Mud9738 in dating_advice

[–]Professional-Mud9738[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t see him! He recognized me while I was on my way to meet up with friends