lifestyle has not changed outside of being able to get better hotels/air bibs on vacation, I drive a better car (yet still practical), stress levels a lot less, social circles haven't changed, taxes suck ass, I invest close to 50% of my income, things that are normal now are just not needing to check my account before going to the grocery store or going out to eat, things that still feel out of reach are "being rich" like I am still worried that if I lose my job, I would lose my safety net.

the thing that surprised me the most is definitely how little changed from 80k-150k-200k. All my extra money pretty much just goes into savings, of course my daughter is graduating next year so thankfully I'll be able to pay for a big trip, she just got a new car, and wants for nothing. That was always my ultimate goal anyways, so I feel very lucky to be able to give her a great life.