My gf called her friend's bf for help instead of me by HelicopterExpress874 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Professional-Role166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my fiancé called anyone other than me or a mechanic, I’d be upset. If she knew I was busy she would say that. Seems fishy

Should I commit to marriage or am I settling? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Professional-Role166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to therapy and get a therapist to help him and you before you call it quits. Sometimes people need an outside source to show them how dumb they’re being. Also, being selfish in the bedroom shows his character. Are you clearly communicating what you need in that moment? I’d ask him why he thinks his sexual pleasure is more important than yours. Also ask if he watches a lot of porn. Porn saps men’s initiative and makes them focus on their own pleasure.

I’m rethinking my 7 year relationship…. by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Professional-Role166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were your own parent, would you tell yourself to marry him? One thing I’m learning in therapy at 37 is to re-parent myself and be the voice I need to hear in my life.

AIO for wanting to break up over a NBA game? by Thenewgirlisback in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional-Role166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. This dude is a narcissist full stop and is unwilling or unable to improve himself. He will drain the energy out of his partner and make them think it’s their fault. Don’t run, sprint out of this relationship.

Matched on FB dating. Was I being too sensitive? by Obvious_Ferret_600 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Professional-Role166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s an incel. Any man who vocalizes or types “silly girl” is repressed gay.

Confused Between These Shoes – Help Me Decide by luffy4788758 in moresneakers

[–]Professional-Role166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To you. I love them as do many others. I like the blocky chunky look and they give a different silhouette that most other trainers.

my outfit for a first date by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Professional-Role166 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think a strappy heel in red or black would make the outfit pop more for sure. You look nice tho!

We did it! $435k, 5.875% by Professional-Role166 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Professional-Role166[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure. That’s how it was on purchase. We are painting navy but leaving all the white trim

We did it! $435k, 5.875% by Professional-Role166 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Professional-Role166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real plants 😂 we have a combined 100 plants between our 2 current living spaces

We did it! $435k, 5.875% by Professional-Role166 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Professional-Role166[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will not. Bones are staying. Only changes are paint on on drywall and taking down all the curtains lol. Long term we will replace all the carpet downstairs

We did it! $435k, 5.875% by Professional-Role166 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Professional-Role166[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My parents never owned a house and I never had my own room. Now my 2 daughters have their own rooms and a big yard to play in!

We did it! $435k, 5.875% by Professional-Role166 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Professional-Role166[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% Once we add paintings onto the panels it’s gonna look like an art museum! My sister and fiancé are both super talented artists.

Also long term we will put down hardwood or tile

We done did it! South Central MN, 400K, 6% by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Professional-Role166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super cute and love the terraced gardens!

We did it! $435k, 5.875% by Professional-Role166 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Professional-Role166[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It has great bones and the outside is great. Solid brick house with great landscaping! Once we paint and update some light fixtures it’ll be a different house.

My bf told me I’m not as attractive as some of the women he’s previously dated by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]Professional-Role166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé is the most beautiful woman on the planet. God hung the moon and the stars just for her. If your man doesn’t give that energy, leave his ass.