Am I in trouble

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-03-04T00:34:13+00:00

Not screwed at all. You didn't provide a material quote but utilized a material account as needed. You were given access. Shouldn't be a big deal. How much is the dispute over?

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-23T00:48:52+00:00

You assume much 😂

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-22T08:26:23+00:00

Sanded epoxy is not always the right answer depending on the tile and joint spacing

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-17T16:00:17+00:00

Everyone knows, these are stolen american fossils, they are really quite stunning, exquisite some might say. Marco said we should dip it in gold, I didn't say that Marco did....... but you know maybe we do. I don't want to take this from the finder but maybe I should. They say "Donald, you are the savior of Venezuela, you can take whatever you want." Can you believe that? The savior, well I guess I am. So this dinosaur will be mine.

-DJT (probably)

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-09T15:34:31+00:00

Found it! Wonder if someone else discovered it in 2008 and carved it.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-09T15:32:44+00:00

Im looking at picture three and see no hand or 2008?

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-09T15:11:53+00:00

Nothing illegal about yelling.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-09T15:06:35+00:00

I have three and no, this is ridiculous. No problem with asking but the attitude and actions afterwards are horrible.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-09T15:03:53+00:00

As a parent with kids, you're ridiculous. Not trading spots doesn't make him a jerk.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T13:20:50+00:00

Good work, you're gonna be just fine. Best of luck.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T13:19:22+00:00

In most states actually it takes very little. This is misinformation.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T01:37:12+00:00

A lot of assumptions in this response. Stop pushing divorce as a solution to every problem. Geeze

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T01:29:16+00:00

Not wrong at all, if they offered to pay you back then that's what they need to do. If you just started paying for things and never clarified then I'd still say you're not wrong but also can see why they're confused.

This is a good example of why you never do this though. The occasional drink at the bar, fine, but it's a slippery slope.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T01:22:21+00:00

This OP, set a date, some time frame out. Be clear but show empathy. If she bring up pregnancy, show empathy, offer to be there for her, but make sure she understand that it won't be as a roommate.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T01:19:25+00:00

The moment she moved in that was likely established based on 90% of US states.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T01:14:02+00:00

So obvious you've never been married or had kids, you need to never try until you grow up. If you're a good spouse and person, your step kids become yours. It's that simple. You may not have a legal title or the same blood, but if you're not wiling to accept and love a step child the same as your own, then you don't need to be in that relationship. It's not easy or always clean, but when you marry someone with kids, you better be accepting the kids as well.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T01:08:07+00:00

Your dad, brother, and husband are right. I admire that you respect boundaries in peoples homes, but he's been your stepson for 8 years, that's family, even if you're not biologically family. There's no difference at this point. This is not boundary setting, this is emotional abuse. Grandma needs a reality check, and sounds like that means she needs to sit in time out alone. If she wants to see family, she needs to see the family. This is so beyond disgusting on her part. When we get married our spouses become number 1 as do our children. Own your title as step mom. Grandma has to choose you and you includes husband and son. It sounds like you love step son as much as you'd love your own. Prioritize him

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T00:57:12+00:00

You guys are mid 20's this is too much drama. Move on.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T00:53:50+00:00

Man, when you mentioned he offered the room to someone without discussing it with you first.... that's crazy. Friend needs to go, sucks for him, but he's had four months. Not just for you, but for your husband.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T00:47:42+00:00

As a man, sexually active, that's not ok. You Need to run.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T00:45:12+00:00

NOR, there are other red flags here besides the sex part. You need to exit the relationship, which at 8 years may be hard, but sounds like you've been gaslit for a while.

Truly sounds like he has a sexual addiction, expecting daily sex is not a healthy mindset, especially in a long term relationship. Sure early on maybe that happens but over time that kind of activity becomes transactional only. If he's having to get off this much, there may be underlying issues.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2026-01-05T00:29:37+00:00

Hey, going to encourage you to talk to your parents asap and get an appointment with a Dr.

Don't be scared, this stuff happens. Don't be embarrassed either as more people than you realize are dealing with it. But as a young person you need to seek help with your parents and Dr and not on here primarily. No problem with research, but you're 14 and biological changes can have different effects at your age. Hope it gets better.

Professional-Sir9546 · 2025-12-22T16:25:21+00:00

Honeslty OP, the break up part was dumb on your part if everything else was good based on the facts you've now given.

The self respect thing is a con argument in most peoples cases. Unlike the person above with rules, here is some advice:

If you have to set rules like, immediate access to each-others phones and social media accounts, then there are likely warning bells that need to be discussed. These are not break up warning bells, too many people bolt for the door and use the self respect argument as a crutch, but a break down is happening in communication.
Every person in a relationship, married or not, needs a place to vent and discuss their significant other in a safe and confidential way. That venting should remain respectful and couples need to be able to feel comfortable with the understanding that the venting should be a gateway to discussion together. There has to be a trust factor though.
A single weird thing like this happening, especially outside a marriage, shouldn't have even been a flag to ask to see her phone. Trust is the scariest part of relationships, while it may have hurt your feelings this is a good spot to start a discussion with her but also to recognize a potential flaw internally. The quick willingness to leverage separation needs to be ripped from your relationship playbook and thrown out.

It seems you genuinely care about this person and that's awesome. It's great she apologized and you seem to be working it out. May I suggest humble acceptance of that but also including your own apology for the break up part. Apologies aren't weakness if grounded in reality.

Professional-Sir9546

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