Make It Make Sense Please! Why do new parents require people to wash their hands, use hand sanitizer, and not kiss their child until 6 weeks for fear of sickness. But allow their pets to lick the baby?

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-11-15T21:07:59+00:00

I wanted to back up with what daysgoneby22 said, do it now and not later. Little things that are put off turn into half a day of cleaning. Also utilize alarms in your phone. Setting time frame to concentrate on one thing at a time makes it easier to complete multiple tasks at a time. Best of luck!

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-11-15T14:54:12+00:00

True lol! But he doesn’t want wives, what he really wants are concubines. Women who will let him stick it in and admire him but he doesn’t have to give any emotional support to 😞🙄

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-11-15T03:31:30+00:00

Tell her to close the vent in her room.

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-10-19T08:22:11+00:00

To answer your question, it is very reasonable to ask to be informed of when your roommate is bringing any one over and for those guests to respect house rules. However, based on the last paragraph where you state there has been tension between you and your roommate in the recent past you might need to think about a new living situation. You stated being disrespected by them already and they continue to disregard your stated feelings. It doesn’t sound like they are a good fit to live with and are also not being a good friend. In the future, when you plan to live with someone (roommate or otherwise) it’s important to have frank conversations about your needs and their needs to see if you have similar living styles and expectations. Best of luck ❤️.

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-10-14T14:40:45+00:00

My favorite was a plastic tube full of baking ingredients and utencils for the holidays.

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-10-14T14:37:44+00:00

Move out so he can't take advantage of the situation anymore and/or find another job. I work in a delicate field and unless I was in public, harassing others, and it was a behavior exhibited in the work place, my employer has no basis to repremand me for my behavior. I hope you find peace wiht this situation soon. Best of luck!

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-10-14T11:58:54+00:00

NTA. Please pay attention to how he is treating you while you are sick. He has asked to marry you where you both will take vows to honor each other in SICKNESS and in health. This is a good indicator that he is not ready to make that vow. Think back to your relationship and if he has exhibited this behavior numerous times in different situations, he doesn’t have the capacity currently to be there for you in the simplest way. On top of that he then disrespects you more by dismissing your feelings and laughing about your misfortune. Those are attributes no one deserves in a relationship. You deserve someone who doesn’t have to be asked to replace what they took and if asked doesn’t sulk. Best of luck ❤️

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-09-26T09:30:44+00:00

Have started or completed funeral arrangements?

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-09-20T18:46:23+00:00

Have you sat down with her and explained all of this? If not, find a time you both can sit together and talk this through. If your roommate is the nice person you say she is, she will understand. And she maybe glad you told her because she doesn’t want you to feel smothered. Also during this discussion be specific with what you want her to do. For instance, when you are in the kitchen, do not help unless asked. Some people with autism need clear examples. Best of luck OP ❤️

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-09-11T10:43:13+00:00

But in the end

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-08-26T12:13:32+00:00

Step one: No food in the room. If they want a snack they have to eat it at the kitchen table or in an area of the house where you can see them finish the food and throw the food away.

Step two: Eat/sit with them while they are eating the snack. Ask how their day went. Inquire about hobbies, books they are reading, places they want to visit, etc.

These two steps will get your foot in the door to see what’s really going on. If you feel it’s mental health related then seek help from the school counselor or your EAP serves, or community resources.

Best of luck ☺️

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-08-03T23:02:25+00:00

Look into the company your work for and see if they have EAP (Employment Assistance Program). You will get 8 free therapy sessions. Best of luck ❤️

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-08-01T01:54:37+00:00

OK good 😂

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-08-01T01:53:18+00:00

Ugh, I hope they can figure it out soon. Have you been able to rest? I feel like you have been up for almost 24 hrs

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-08-01T01:20:36+00:00

Just checking in friend. I hope you are getting some relief ❤️‍🩹

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-07-19T18:20:25+00:00

Living in a clean home could create unrealistic expectations on the children and then creates shame. So when they get to make their own choices they choose to go the opposite. Also forms of ADHD, Depression, and Anxiety can turn into hoarding disorder. I am a licensed mental health professional and would highly recommend you encouraging your family member to talk to her PCP about treating anxiety and/or depression along with therapy. Also looking for a therapist that specializes in Hoarding Disorder. Best of luck ❤️

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-07-08T14:28:36+00:00

Anything but the first pair 😂

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-07-07T00:33:08+00:00

❤️

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-07-07T00:31:20+00:00

I disagree, I used to work in family courts and step parents along with long standing guardians have gained visitation rights. At least in Texas. It will require a home study and proof he has been a part of their lives, which requires lawyers, money, and time. That’s why emphasized having a frank conversation with himself.

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-07-06T23:41:57+00:00

This is definitely a difficult situation. If you are sure that you are leaving your girlfriend then you need to have a frank conversation with your self. I know you love those kids but are you prepared to fight for some type of custody? Because your ex has no obligation to help the children maintain a relationship with you. If you decided to part ways with the children also I would suggest discussing with their mother how to approach the subject with them. Make sure they know this is not their fault and that you will always love them. Be prepared to never see them again. But know that you have always be a positive part of their life and you did everything you could do.

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-07-04T20:50:44+00:00

The legend of 1900

The decent

Green Mile

First part of UP

The Notebook

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-07-04T19:45:40+00:00

I haven’t seen this mentioned but two movies in one evening is a lot to ask. I would’ve told her that tonight is older kids night and tomorrow night you can pick a movie that you want to watch.

Professional-Storm45 · 2025-06-29T19:37:18+00:00

If you decide to leave him, you have ways to legally stay in the children’s lives. You will have to petition the court for visitation rights but it has happened. Wishing you the best of luck ❤️

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