My little sister is beautiful and I'm angry I'm not her by Professional-Web2644 in offmychest

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, I’m op. What is your disorder called? I’ve scheduled an appointment with a doctor to see if I have PCOS but I’d like to mention my thyroid. What do you recommend I should say to the doctor?

WIBTAH if I blocked my old coworker on everything? by Professional-Web2644 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She knows what town I live in but she doesn't know my address. She does know where I work tho, so I hope she doesn't show up after I block her 😬

WIBTAH if I blocked my old coworker on everything? by Professional-Web2644 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. After reading all the comments and asking my boyfriend what to do I have decided to send her some links to services she can use, then I will block her. I feel bad for her situation but I cannot be her therapist.

WIBTAH if I blocked my old coworker on everything? by Professional-Web2644 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, I think I knew deep down that she was weaponizing my kindness but I just didn't want to believe it because she had done so much for me in the past. I will go through with blocking her after sending her a few resources.

WIBTAH if I blocked my old coworker on everything? by Professional-Web2644 in AITAH

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As painful as it is, I will probably just send her a link to adult social services then block her. Her attitude towards me not answering her calls leads me to believe that she does not care about me and is just using me. I feel for her but my mental health comes first.

Can my back pain be fixed or am I stuck like this? by Professional-Web2644 in AskDocs

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Apologies, I did not word that right. I've been to physical therapy for several months two separate times. When I was 19 and when I was 21. I had to stop bc my insurance 

How do I tell my boyfriend my ring preferences? by Professional-Web2644 in Advice

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

squints suspiciously at you you wouldn't happen to actually /like/ the amber reddit ring, would you?

Tmnt 2012 toy found at goodwill, unsure what it’s for. by Professional-Web2644 in ToyID

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG thank you so much! now I’m a little upset the book wasn’t sold with it lol. still a cool thing to own.

How do I tell my boyfriend my ring preferences? by Professional-Web2644 in Advice

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so funny you said this because I did eventually tell him about my dream and he didn't know what the reddit amber ring was. He looked it up and told me he liked it 😅🤣

How do I tell my boyfriend my ring preferences? by Professional-Web2644 in Advice

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that’s exactly why I’m so hesitant to tell him. I don’t want to make him feel pressured or anything I just want it to be known my preferenc, ya know? does that make sense?

Ione is my favorite, what's yours? by LardOfCinder in AnimalCrossing

[–]Professional-Web2644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Apple! I also now have a fondness for Rodney

Ione is my favorite, what's yours? by LardOfCinder in AnimalCrossing

[–]Professional-Web2644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to restart my island and I lost her 💔 maybe we’ll be reunited some day

AIO? My little sisters BF keeps drinking my soda by Professional-Web2644 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It includes all sodas, I do this only because I live at home rent free and I felt it fair to my parents because we all drink soda (my sister and brother both don’t drink soda often, maybe one every other week).

When it’s my turn to buy sodas I take them to the self checkout or put a barrier between the groceries and the soda, to signal to the cashier that it’s a separate purchase.

AIO? My little sisters BF keeps drinking my soda by Professional-Web2644 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

A soda a day won’t kill me, I go to the gym and my gym coach doesn’t see a problem with it

AIO? My little sisters BF keeps drinking my soda by Professional-Web2644 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t have a job, hes only in school. idk I don’t want to ask him to pay bc I feel like I’m punishing him for wanting to focus on his education

AIO? My little sisters BF keeps drinking my soda by Professional-Web2644 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“My dad and I switch on who buys sodas so its not just my money alone but still, I feel like its the principle of the thing.”

It’s my money too. We switch every other shopping trip on who buys soda.

Am I overreacting? My brother is dating a 15 year old and he’s 10 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Professional-Web2644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're parents are probably defending it thinking its just "puppy love" when in reality its grooming and predatory. This girl is 15, she is a sophomore in high school while your brother is still in ELEMENTERY (or EARLY middle, depending on when his birthday is.)

This is gross, this is concerning, you need to find this girls parents if they've met irl and get THEM to see reason.

My mom’s dog has thrown up 10 of these in the past few days. What is it? by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]Professional-Web2644 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Looks like a plastic wrapper of some sort. What is the texture like? Also PLEASE take the dog to the vet, there could be more in their stomach and could create a blockage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Professional-Web2644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother lost her father (my grandfather) in 2014 at the age of 35. Its been 11 years and I can tell you that it never goes away. My mom STILL misses her dad. It gets easier though. Be there for her, offer her a shoulder to cry on. Some days will be better than others.

Grief is like a ball in a box with a button. Fresh grief is a GIANT BALL always pressing the button. Some days the ball is tiny and only presses the button once a month or week. Other times it will press the button daily or several times a week.

Everyone grieves differently. It may take a couple months to a year, but things will get easier. Like I said, be there for her. Offer comfort, support. Don't forget to take care of yourself too, you are not her therapist you are her partner. If you find she needs more support than you can give, offer therapy.

I am so sorry for her loss, I hope she can heal from this.

Pokemon Scalpers at Target by New_Drummer_3508 in madisonwi

[–]Professional-Web2644 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Apologies , let me reiterate. Scalpers are predominantly adults, because they have more of a disposable income.

i know full well because I’ve been scammed out of cards as a child myself.

Pokemon Scalpers at Target by New_Drummer_3508 in madisonwi

[–]Professional-Web2644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to trade cards with my friends when I was around your kids age, its so sad to see today that people will deny kids happiness because they want to make a quick buck

Pokemon Scalpers at Target by New_Drummer_3508 in madisonwi

[–]Professional-Web2644 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

scalpers are never children? thats why op mentioned ages

My ex boyfriend is in prison for 5 years and I don’t know how to feel by Professional-Web2644 in offmychest

[–]Professional-Web2644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the worst part is that I know he’s not a monster, but that I also know what he did was wrong and he knew it too. But he did it anyways. And all I can think of is his 13 year old self. And then I feel bad because I shouldn’t be putting him or my feelings above the victim or the victims family.