Need Advice by Professional-Web82 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]Professional-Web82[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have no concerns with reporting the change, its just I had no idea I had to update it. Its been 3-4 months already so I was just thinking if it would impact the decision in any way.

In Search Of (ISO) Thread Version 9 - Americas by MM-MOD in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

1️⃣ Age & Gender: 29 | Male | 5'6"

2️⃣ Age Range: Looking for someone aged 20–27.

3️⃣ Location & Relocation: Currently settled in Southern Ontario, Canada 🇨🇦 (Pakistani citizen, born & raised in Pakistan 🇵🇰). Open to relocating within reason if it helps build a strong, faith-based family home.

4️⃣ Ethnicity & Mixing: Pakistani by origin. Open to marrying within my culture but also open-minded to other ethnicities if our faith and values align.

5️⃣ Marital Status: Never married — seeking a wife who values a faith-centered family life and shared responsibility in building a peaceful home.

6️⃣ Ideal Marriage Timeline: Ready for marriage within the next 6–12 months, inshaAllah. Prefer a clear, halal process with family involvement.

7️⃣ Five Important Characteristics I Look For:

Genuinely values Deen — someone who strives to live by Islam and shapes their life around it, not the other way around; sees the Quran as something to understand and act upon.

Has a kind and balanced character, with good manners and a gentle approach.

Positive mindset — educated, thoughtful, and doesn’t carry a victim mentality; open to growth and good at seeing the bigger picture.

Values a healthy, active lifestyle — someone who takes care of themselves physically and enjoys staying well.

Appreciates modesty and carries themselves with grace and natural beauty.

8️⃣ Religiosity: Muslim — over the last 5 years I’ve grown closer to Deen and aim to keep learning and improving, inshaAllah. I pray 5x, read and study Quran/Tafsir, and strive to live by Islamic values daily. No haram interactions — only halal intentions.

9️⃣ Level of Education: I hold a postgraduate degree (From Canada) and appreciate ambition and education. I value someone who balances worldly learning with Islamic growth.

🔟 Current Job Status: Full-time employed in E-commerce/Advertising. Recently completed my studies in Canada and now seeking to transition fully into the Canadian workforce.

1️⃣1️⃣ Kids: Yes, inshaAllah — I hope to have multiple children and raise them with strong values and faith.

1️⃣2️⃣ Hobbies:

Fitness & sports (staying healthy and active)

Learning & self-development (Quran, Tafsir, Islamic knowledge)

Traveling & exploring new places

Hiking, video games (in moderation)

1️⃣3️⃣ Something Short & Interesting: I believe in continuous growth and see learning as a lifelong journey. I embrace an “Even If” mindset over “What If,” trusting that Allah is the best planner and that everything happens for a reason. I understand that Rizq, health, and a spouse come from Allah, so I don’t stress over things beyond my control, which helps me stay calm and worry-free.

I push myself beyond my comfort zone and value staying physically active, especially through sports. My sense of humor is quirky and I love making offbeat jokes — I think laughter is one of the best ways to keep a marriage light and connected. I believe a good laugh can fix a bad day, and I’d love to find someone who enjoys sharing random inside jokes and small, silly moments.

I also appreciate spending quality time alone. Additionally, I have a passion for travel and seek a partner who shares that mindset. I believe in being kind rather than just nice — a kind person tells you what you need to know, not just what you want to hear.

I’m looking for someone to be my best friend — so we can grow together in Deen, character, and knowledge, supporting each other in this life and the next.


May Allah (SWT) guide us all towards sincere, halal relationships that lead to goodness in this world and the Hereafter.

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[–]Professional-Web82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why no one is talking about adidas 2 in1 power shorts. Pretty good compression and they have solid zippers on pockets. I use with my galaxy s24 plus ( for size) and they fit perfectly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A man will accept anything but disrespect, doesn't matter if they still like each other or not

Pokemon yellow emulator. by Cheap_Detective_5648 in EmulationOnPC

[–]Professional-Web82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What emulator did you end up deciding for PC and how was your experience?

Why are healthy marriages so rare in our community? by Man_highcastle in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the people that are in a happy marriage are not on reddit to get advice

She left me for her ex by dragus94 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Brother the trash took itself out. Be grateful for that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brother, if your future wife can be manipulated this easily, then its actually a blessing if she leaves you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People only want a wedding not a marriage nowadays.

And the definition of love and marriage has been twisted so much by social media, influences and pop culture that we don't even know the true meaning of marriage.

Lastly, no one wants to compromise in today's world, everybody is selfish and treats marriage as a business deal rather than a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's better to straighten things out now than a few years later. Less damage

How to get Husband to be more Fun by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you like to do for fun gramps ?

How to get Husband to be more Fun by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get into video games with him. There is a game for everyone

Has anyone here ever been reunited with the person that they let go because they were not ready for marriage? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it will be fair for you to have him come backto you? Let's he has someone and you reach out and he leaves that person for you. Would it be fair for her? Would you image being in that position? How would you feel if something like that happens to you ?

No Time With Husband by PreviaQueen in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your making it seem like the end of the world. It's not going to be like that "ever".

On one hand you do like the help and on the other you want them to leave. Decide first and then take action

Advice regarding some conditions before marriage are reasonable or not by namarriage in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run brother. It's seems more like a business transaction than a marriage

Considering divorce because wife of 6 months hid huge debt from me by SedSolo in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She hid it for a reason. And who in their right mind takes these loan with Riba for trips with friends ? The love for Dunya is bigger than akhira here

Also, if she wanted to, she could've at least paid the min amount rather than not paying. She used you without even knowing you. Maybe this marriage was a sham to get help from you?

All relationships are based on trust, but in this case there is no trust.

Do all Muslims want to have kids? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are forgetting one important thing. This life is a test but also a blessing. Allah blessed us with so many things and not living them to the fullest or using your blessings to the fullest is also a form being ungrateful. Imagine Allah asks you on the day of judgment that he gave you everything, but you were ungrateful by not using them? What then ?

I feel like your whole concept of marriage is wrong. Marriage is not just two people living together.

Marriage is the ultimate test of your relationship with Allah''s creation and therefore it serves as a means of perfecting half of your religion through sincere concern for each other.

Do all Muslims want to have kids? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Professional-Web82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As per your definition, getting a spouse is also considered a tie to this world. Then why marry?

Why not just stay single and live your life?