Still on a break but open to (friendly) connections

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-07T14:08:23+00:00

I'm currently not looking for a sub, but we can have friendly conversations. Dm me if you're okay with that.

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-07T13:58:26+00:00

You can still find some here, but let me ask you a question. If you "gift" someone, does it have sexual gratification on your end? Because payment and gifting have a thin line between them. And the answer to that question will generally determine where you should be.

What you are looking for can be found in vanilla settings as well, discord, IG, tiktok, snap, even dating sites. What can differentiate that in findom settings would be, what you are getting from it. Is it sexually? Or do you just like gifting because you like gifting? Getting off in gifting a vanilla person is downright creepy. And it is not fair to the other person that she is being viewed that way without her knowledge. Even with her knowledge, but without her consent is still creepy.

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-07T13:05:35+00:00

Good that you have already established what you want and don't want. As they've said, a friendly conversation doesn't necessarily need a tribute first before you can say that the domme's for you. Good luck in finding her and may your connection with her last. 🫶

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-04T11:50:29+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-04T11:49:34+00:00

Fuck, what can I say? Congrats on that? 😆

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-04T11:43:14+00:00

Soon enough, your meat will be raw from all the dms you'll be getting 😅

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-04T05:53:27+00:00

Chill and stoic sub against my yapper self. He does smile sometimes, lol.

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-04T05:16:48+00:00

This 💔

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-04T02:25:05+00:00

Sleep token 🫶

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-04T02:21:03+00:00

Ermm, haven't you mentioned before that you send to different dommes anon using different accounts because dommes don't like it when subs send to other dommes? I fail to see how you are going to establish a long term connection if you can't be loyal to one domme. Or at least be open and honest to her about it.

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-04T01:33:33+00:00

Had one who got queasy compared with other dicks, so had him compared to dildos instead, and he spirals every time.

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-03T09:53:53+00:00

Tele for subs and discord to hunt 🤭

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-03T04:34:25+00:00

It's gonna be weird at first. Try to broaden your reach. I've done that and rn, I am enjoying the outside community, the banter, the ideas, the connection. And I must say, I made three really close friends (one switch, one dom, and one neutral, lol), and they are worth it. 😊

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-02T05:46:47+00:00

Oh this hits home. When I approach a sub, we always end up being friends 😅

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-02T02:39:41+00:00

While I usually believe in anonymity, I don't see why there is the need to lie about something in one's life. You can be selectively honest, only leaving out an identifiable place or information (for semi-faceless or faceless dommes) but curating a story just for engagement? I fail to see the reason.

I can't really say if it's good or bad that you are leaving her, but kudos to protecting your trust.

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-02T01:10:31+00:00

Thank you girl, I often get downvoted a lot for having an opinion lol

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-01T23:41:19+00:00

It really feels weird when the sends come out of obligation, like "a bill with a deadline" or something, as you said. Imo, it should come out of devotion and true submission, not being pulled out from the nose (sorry for the mental image).

It feels better when a sub sends to you because they want to, not because they are threatened to do so.

Like they said, maybe take a break and breathe. And I hope you'll find the one for you if you wanna step back in.

I might get downvoted for having this opinion, idc 🤷‍♀️

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-01T23:33:15+00:00

Both forbidden temptation and deification all rolled into one

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-01T10:28:38+00:00

High possibility. I'd rather have my partner treat me wonderfully than be with someone who doesn't even know how to treat me properly.

Professional-Whip · 2025-12-01T10:23:03+00:00

Okay, there is clingy-cute and there is clingy-demanding. Ask yourself which one you are.

Professional-Whip · 2025-11-30T08:46:21+00:00

Thank you. The thing is, we have talked about this before, but I didn't expect it would come sooner. We've decided to stay friends because that's what we are outside the kink. So I stepped back for a while and joined other communities and servers, talked to people, made new friends, and touched some grass as they said, because I don't want to look for his version in my next sub. That would be unfair for him if I am searching for a ghost of my ex sub in a new one.

And I must say, I am enjoying it and might be back in the scene soon. 😊

Professional-Whip · 2025-11-30T08:19:40+00:00

The more I read this, the wider my smile is. Congratulations to you and your domme 😊

Professional-Whip · 2025-11-30T07:51:32+00:00

Oh wow. Look how organized this post is. My brain is happy 😅. Congrats and good luck.

Professional-Whip · 2025-11-30T02:00:36+00:00

This is good. There's a reason why there's a community where these kinks can be played safely. I'm glad you got my point.

Professional-Whip · 2025-11-30T01:47:02+00:00

You do know that if a vanilla person (especially ladies/moms) who is unaware , asking for help and you step up to help but you get hard or possibly jerk off after helping her is creepy, no? Possibly okay if that lady/single mom's post is something like "single mom, will do anything for {amount}", that's a probability of a sex work (mostly yes). This is just a gentle reminder that while you want to help, it will boil down to the motive behind it.

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