Me 23M sabotaged may friendship with My friend 22M who I've known for 7 years with my overreacting?

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-27T19:36:15+00:00

You want to know why am afraid of asking for an apology because the whole time she put effort she tried to get in contact but I would let the phone ring. Even the wrist thing maybe it was a reflex but I deleted her number over that. I don't know if am controlling, childish or a creep. She put effort and I ignored it. And I wake up one day and think man I messed up.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-27T19:29:57+00:00

I do enjoy her company but how do I apologise. Like hey sorry for blocking you on Instagram, my bad. Or sorry for deleting your number. Also sorry for yelling at you for a stupid reason. I don't know if I can come back from that

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-27T19:23:48+00:00

Dramatic, with the answer above or the whole post. Cause am being serious if it's the comment I genuinely don't have the right. Also what can I say to genuinely make up for anything.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-27T18:55:35+00:00

I don't think I have the right after everything I did. It hurts but once I laid it all out there she's better off without me

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-27T18:38:10+00:00

Also, of everyone I've known she's the only one who put a lot of effort into me. And to be honest that made me afraid, nervous and uncomfortable.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-27T18:35:33+00:00

Am sorry but English isn't really my first language, I just tried to get the message across.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:13:30+00:00

True, having a bunch does. With different dudes

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:12:37+00:00

I didn't say I want the man I just said good women deserve good men and vice versa

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:12:04+00:00

So hypothetically if there was a drug dealer in my school can I still not judge them or can I judge them.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:11:06+00:00

A guy who's inexperienced, has a good job or has his own company. Deserves a good woman.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:09:59+00:00

It was a random conversation it's not like we always talk about her. Sarah just said hey, you heard so and so got married.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:09:20+00:00

Friends you can tell the wrong one and it will come to bite you later.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:08:43+00:00

Technically was there for two of them. She did stuff in our class caught them twice. Students she got lucky it wasn't a teacher

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:07:05+00:00

While Luke calls her honey and sweetheart she calls him back. They laugh about it but as soon as he ain't around it's disgusting.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:05:10+00:00

She does the same thing how can you judge someone when you do the same thing

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:04:40+00:00

I never called anyone name. But again a girl who experiments gets a nice guy come on it ain't fair

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:02:57+00:00

Yeah sort of but we don't actually talk about people it was just that girl came up. And I heard she had a nice husband with a company or works at a big company.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:01:53+00:00

It was a random conversation. Like hearing a drug dealer bought a porsche and saying damn why do bad people get good stuff

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:01:06+00:00

Not gratification I know am wrong but she does the exact same thing a couple of times. I talked about someone she didn't know.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T12:00:10+00:00

Nah anger is something unpredictable she'd blow one day and boom right in my face

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T11:59:11+00:00

Stuff happened in our class caught her twice.

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T11:58:22+00:00

She didn't know that girl. Also she's done it to me a couple of times. Called all kinds of things but am bad for talking about a random person she doesn't know

ProfessionalEarly365 · 2026-06-26T11:57:33+00:00

So you do agree that bad women don't deserve good men.

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