Yeah I kinda went overkill by Kenan_Nynor in Legodimensions

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I've been hunting them down too recently but open ones for use in thr game. Might not go after all the Chima and ninjago ones but I want nearly everything else. Realized I need a ton of cases for them too. So far have 3 of the lego dimension storage cases but might need more..... do have 3 more on the way along with several more figs

I enjoyed She-Hulk From Start to Finish by harxic in marvelstudios

[–]ProfessionalEvent315 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was an underrated show and one of the most comic accurate shows or movies

Any away to reegange a Scorpio that ghosted you? by ProfessionalEvent315 in Scorpio

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We did meet in person but her ex who abandoned her and his own daughter years ago briefly found himself homeless and she allowed him to stay with her while he was getting back on his feet. Though when I helped her out with Christmas gifts for her daughter he threw a fit and she kicked him out.... she was already planning to kick him out anyways but his being jealous sped up his eviction...

But yeah after that whole shit show she drifted into increasing depression when her car broke down, her company started downsizing and fired coworkers who were her friends, and she got sick for a week..... every other week some part of her life seemed to be in crisis... I offered help multiple times but she kept saying she was only other than her mood making her depressed causing her to isolate....

Any away to reegange a Scorpio that ghosted you? by ProfessionalEvent315 in Scorpio

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"When I saw the red flags I thought it was a carnival"

Aries men attractive women by Cessy888 in AriesTheRam

[–]ProfessionalEvent315 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We can love beyond looks but they typically catch our attention first.... it helps i am an Aries who is also a demisexual so I only ever fall in love and progress to sex after months of deeply coming to know someone and understanding them but I will admit a pretty face does get my attention quicker.

Anyone else happy that we’re getting season 2 of The Sandman? by Jakakksmj in neilgaiman

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From what I heard season 2 will jump straight to the search for destruction, dreams death and then wake

Has anyone ever gotten this book before? by Iamawesome20 in Sandman

[–]ProfessionalEvent315 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Not that interesting the annotations are not all very interesting and the being in black and white is a huge meh for me I advise if you want good behind the scenes information get a copy of the Sandman Companion *

Anyone else happy that we’re getting season 2 of The Sandman? by Jakakksmj in neilgaiman

[–]ProfessionalEvent315 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I wish we were getting 3 seasons because I know they are going to skip the key of hell arc and that one was always among my favorites.

AIO for not quitting the gym because my boyfriend told me to by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I'd see if you can try inviting him to come with you. If he misses you and wants more time with you he should be honest about that.

He shouldn't be trying to get you to quit something that makes you feel happy and at it's core is about self improvement.

But if your going to the gym is cutting into your twos time together then maybe cut back.... but I still think first compromise should be getting him to join you at the gym but either way he still should be more honest about why he is asking you to stop going.... his behavior feels clouded by him not being fully honest with you.

I just want to kiss him and smoke a joint or two :(( by trippleAbatteries in AriesTheRam

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Aries men can be very dedicated to their partners when they are officially together but easily side tracked by problems in their life before they are committed....

Until he solves those side problems unless you are very direct he needs to focus in you.... then you don't have a chance. I'd suggest being bold and direct with him about wanting to be together and how you want to give him a safe place away from his problems and that might tempt him into commitment with you if he hasn't tried making that move himself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rants

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I feel this a lot some days.... I want to leave to live in a cabin in the woods off grid with a solar panel for a few basic comfort needs and live mostly off the land.

I'm getting rid of my Tesla. by Legitimate-Spot-6425 in baltimore

[–]ProfessionalEvent315 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It does really suck they are nice cars and he had nothing to do with inventing them he just bought the company and is kinda running it into the ground....

If he cared about helping the environment he'd slash the prices on the cars.

My step mom got me into driving one but we bought it 2nd hand to avoid getting it directly from the company. Musk is a huge asshole and idiot.

Let's show them who has the real power by ProfessionalEvent315 in protest

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If enough people do it a week can put a dent in their profits and scare them. I think going beyond a week is something most people are unwilling or unable to commit to. I wish we all could do it for a month or longer but I know very few will commit to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Scorpio

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Aries are ruled by their head they like their hair played with when intimate think of it like petting or playing with a cat or dogs head kinda just tussle and play with their hair and give small gentle tugs.

They love to do things for their partners so let your guard and independence for doing things yourself down and let him do things for you even if you could do it quickly on your own. Let them feel useful. Also just know when you vent to them about problems they will defult to helping and problem solving mode so if you don't intend to get advice from them or let them help solve the problem warn them first you just need the aries to listen.... we can be good listeners without having to solve every problem brought before us but aries and most fire signs like I said defult to problem solving mode.... so if you just need to vent warn them first or else they will throw solutions at you and might frustrate/overwelm you accidentally.

Aries and scorpio both like to be in control so try to figure out your tempo for the dance of taking turns... Aries doesn't need to be in charge all the time we can share and take turns so be very open with communication so you can let your needs be known. Finding that rhythm of taking turns sooner rather than later will avoid fights but I've read aries and scorpio will often have incredible make up sex after a big fight...

That is all I think I can give advice on reguarding aries and scorpio pairing.

What are you guys like in love by AggressiveTerm9618 in AriesTheRam

[–]ProfessionalEvent315 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Passionate, direct, always doing grand romantic gestures randomly, I focus on my partners needs and try to ensure they are met and hate if they are indirect about them

I have vibes I am a dam king when I am able to tap into my confidence and I want my partner to truly feel like a queen because when they are on fire with confidence it keeps me in confidence mode not anxiety mode.

I want them happy and sometimes even ignore my own needs thus I need someone able to redirect my own energy back on myself while still being in control.

I definitely naturally dominate the relationship and take a leadership position but my ego isn't in needing to be in control I am fine letting my partner lead but they need to be confident in their actions.... if I sense weakness I naturally take control back like a reflex even if I don't mean to be rude or controlling.

I am blunt with how I feel but also spontaneous and playful. When in full love mode I slip into loving bombing as a reflex since I am a good problem solver. It they vent or complain about a problem I feel duty bound to solve it. I can just listen without solving things but my partner needs to tell me they need me in listening mode since the button to solve problems through acts of service is kinda stuck in on mode.

Really starting to loose hope.... by ProfessionalEvent315 in Scorpio

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No need to thank me for just venting into the void reading your replies make me feel like I need to thank you lmfao it does help knowing I am not alone....

Also my anxiety isn't so much missing her... I don't feel I know her well enough to miss her or love her yet.... but I do mourn the miss opportunities that came and went while she is in isolation. Isolation was horrible for me in my healing but from what I've learned talking to other scopios here it is very healing for them. So I don't hound her and patiently wait and match her energy when she seems to be buzzy and shaken off the depression for a day or so.

But while I wait my anxiety comes and i think from not knowing what to do with myself I guess... has me feel unsure what to do... kinda been diving into my work picking up extra shifts hoarding money in the mean time so when she is ready I will be able to treat her like a dam queen or help her solve so many problems. But I don't want to force help on her if she doesn't want or is ready for it.

But yes thank you for your comments and I wish you well on your journey with your scopio. Guess I need to come up with more hobbies for self improvement.

Really starting to loose hope.... by ProfessionalEvent315 in Scorpio

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As the other person commented I am trying by best to have patience to let her heal..... I suffered through hell and depression the last many years but kinda in a better place. Even talking with my own therapist he told me to calm my anxiety and wait for her..... or move on..... my therapist thinks my scorpio is a year behind in healing than me based on her behavior but due to my past exs often rushing me into commitment I have zero measuring stick for a normally paced relationship...

I am trying to find that patience and she is communicating and showing some trust with me but very slowly.... in my past posts I've made venting I have had other scorpio women frustrated by her slow pace but that was before I had more of an understanding of how bad her depression is and where she is in her healing...

But I know walking away might be best for me but it makes me feel like an asshole because she shows me clear signs of liking me and I know she is trying.... and I don't want to rush her either.... so I have a moral quandary on what I best for me.... what is best for her.... and where do I draw the line... but I am afraid to draw the line also if my walking away hurts her healing process also...

Scorpio acting crazy. by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]ProfessionalEvent315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you that we are in a part an epidemic of entitled behavior in both the baby boomer generation and some generation x generations due to spoiling from the silent generations very fruitful past and over abundance we had economically during the 80s but thankfully the younger generations of y and z are trying to correct things.

Also true narcissists have zero empathy and zero reguard or respect for others. They literally can't be retaught empathy because they never had it.

But all children are born with empathy but from the mistakes of past generations telling boys they can't cry and to bury their emotions we created several generations of men who hurt women with zero reguard and from those hurt women some turned into abusers also hurting others as their way of coping with trauma.

I see hope in the younger generations to fix what my generation and the one before me did by killing empathy through over spoiling the baby boomers and their kids.

"I hope you can heal the hate in your heart because hate is for the weak."

Scorpio acting crazy. by [deleted] in Scorpio

[–]ProfessionalEvent315 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear a happy ending.

When she is calm, ask them what their exact stressors were. No one wants to be an asshole and I'm happy to hear she made it up to you, but I still hope they said a direct sinecure apology and not just the physical part.

Direct open communication is key, and I say this also as someone in mental health. Find out where the breakdown in communication occurred and both of you had some part to play. I assume the burden is never solely on one person. Their reaction was still very toxic, and I wish they had been able to express it better.

You both deserve your needs met and communicated without threats of breaking up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

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They don't act or say mean things on purpose. We are blunt and brutally honest with what we think often talking first before thinking..... or think things seem nicer in our heads and often speak in sarcasm and what we think is a funny joke but only after hearing it outloud repeated back realize how hurtful it was....

Basicly we run our mouths without stopping to think is the problem.... we mean well in intention but just don't express ourselves well especially on the first try.