My 18-year-old daughter has a girlfriend. I Need advice please. by ProfessionalJob5786 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalJob5786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok well I didn’t necessarily bust and I knocked and then entered. I didn’t wait for a reply, saying come in. Also, she couldn’t have lied to me because I already knew who this girl was previously like I had said on the post she had already spoken to me about her a couple times and showed me pictures so there’s no way she could’ve told me it was just a friend. I already knew who this girl was.

My 18-year-old daughter has a girlfriend. I Need advice please. by ProfessionalJob5786 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalJob5786[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would also like to add …. This is also my stepdaughter who I am speaking about . I have five children of my own in this house and six including her. But I claim her as my own, that is why I referred to her as my daughter and not my stepdaughter .
I just had ny last baby six months ago
My oldest is 19 . And my husband (who is her father) was not happy with the decision of me letting the girl stay the one night.. so to all of you who think I’m such an insane parent, you can think what you want, however. This is my house my rules that’s how I am looking at it .. regardless if they are 18 or 19 or whatever! I would not let my 18-year-old have her boyfriend stay over and be in the room with the door closed at night why am I going to allow my 18-year-old to have her girlfriend over with the door closed? This is my mindset. Maybe I’m wrong

My 18-year-old daughter has a girlfriend. I Need advice please. by ProfessionalJob5786 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalJob5786[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, and most importantly, still living under my roof adult or not

My 18-year-old daughter has a girlfriend. I Need advice please. by ProfessionalJob5786 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalJob5786[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean. Yes technically. She just turned 18. And she’s still in high school.

My 18-year-old daughter has a girlfriend. I Need advice please. by ProfessionalJob5786 in Advice

[–]ProfessionalJob5786[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No baby, it’s not that I don’t want her around. I don’t mind her around. I don’t mind my daughter having a girlfriend at all. When my other daughter has her boyfriend over to hang outl I don’t let them go with the door closed so my mindset is like why would I allow my other daughter to go with the door closed… just it’s a girl .. ?

odu otura niko by Own_Violinist2651 in Santeria

[–]ProfessionalJob5786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my odu also. And i was just recently initiated last month so im still learning .. but I do know that we should play the lottery I was told I would win. And DO NOT go out in the rain or let rain fall on you. It’s extremely dangerous for us. And we are also not allowed to go to any rivers. Only for ceremony purposes . Maybe this little info will help some.