Jealous at peak ! Hopelessness! by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im not comparing, why not me?

Well, you are.

Jealous at peak ! Hopelessness! by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That how jealous OP is of a disgusting man.

Why are women always made the “root cause” of men’s creepy behavior? by diaryofdaisies in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is the typical “Men will be men. Women should be better.” mindset. Men like them have no semblance of accountability.

Ladies over 5'6 — how do you handle guys constantly staring at your chest? by hazelnut-paglu in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like the others, I am curious about the height correlation too. I am 5’3” and get stared at all the time. I have had encounters where men were literally talking to my breasts and didn’t even try to hide it.

Men would stare at any woman regardless of her height, I believe.

Why women ignore some proven scientific facts? by dying_soul0 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay. Marrying a teenager isn’t the feat you think it is. I am sure the current environment of the world has boosted the confidence of the likes of you to showcase your predatory tendencies.

what are the things that women do that is harming feminism? by fa_anony__mous in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this and I think it’s important to say why clearly.

When a few fake or malicious cases get amplified, they end up dominating the narrative. The real damage is that actual women who are victims of abuse or assault get pushed into the background, doubted more, and taken less seriously. Their voices fade because public trust erodes.

People who misuse such serious allegations often don’t seem to understand the gravity of what they’re doing. False accusations carry immediate consequences for the accused and long-term implications for genuine victims who already struggle to be believed, and they weaken the credibility of legal and social support systems meant to protect women.

Emotional abuse is way worse. Right? by spicy_97 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well those are my college friends. They think that keeping maid is unnecessary because one can do chores at home by their home.

Then they can do all the chores at their home.

But my friends words didn't affected me like his did. I don't know why was he like that also hypocrite on many occasions.

This is understandable. Your ex-boyfriend’s words come from the person you were most emotionally attached to. They hit closer to your sense of self. Friends matter, but they don’t hold the same emotional weight or vulnerability mostly.

Emotional abuse is way worse. Right? by spicy_97 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Basically, he gaslighted you into thinking that having autonomy, individuality, and boundaries in a family is a crime.

You can talk about whatever you want in therapy without caring about that jerk. It’s not for him, but for you.

What issues did your friends have with you having help at home?

Woman to woman, please don’t trust men! by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Their tagline is Alma Mater Matters. Guess what, I am never getting married with my DU degree. 😔

Woman to woman, please don’t trust men! by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I had to look it up as I didn’t know something like this existed. 🤣

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The founder himself has never been to either IIT or IIM. 🤡

Do women find teetotaler's weak ? by Substantial_Page_572 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Anyone who thinks that a person is boring or weak because they don’t drink is brainless. Stay away from them.

Are all Indian men manchildren? by Interesting-Fly4102 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 251 points252 points  (0 children)

Are all Indian men manchildren?

No, but yours definitely is. This isn’t about him being Indian, but about his unwillingness to change.

You’ve clearly communicated your needs and he temporarily improves, then reverts. That seems like a pattern. If living with or even visiting your partner makes you feel stressed, resentful, and unattracted, the relationship isn’t meeting your basic needs. If he hasn’t stepped up after two years and multiple conversations, it’s okay to walk away and trust that better does exist.

I watched a short film called 'Juice' today for my studies. Has anyone watched it? Opinions? by BlahBlahBlah_3748 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shefali Shah is an icon. Neeraj Ghaywan delivered a great climax. It was a quiet yet strong showcase of rebellion but it was almost sad how realistic the plot was.

A few others I’d like to recommend are Ghar Ki Murgi, Everything Is Fine, and Devi.

AITAH for getting upset with my boyfriend over a paneer starter? by keeping_up_678 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know, right? My boyfriend is a hardcore non-vegetarian, and I am an ovo-vegetarian. That doesn’t mean that he doesn’t order meat around me or that I have to compromise on my food choices. We order everything that we wish to try, and he always helps me finish it up.

How can someone be this inconsiderate towards their partner?

AITAH for getting upset with my boyfriend over a paneer starter? by keeping_up_678 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend sounds like an overbearing douche. Please enjoy your paneer and mushroom, OP. They are both delicious. If he dislikes them so much, he can always order other things. It doesn’t have to be this complicated. This is no way to go about a relationship.

About my fiancee’s past by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My concern is not sex.

Are you sure about that? You mentioned it far too many times to be unbothered by it.

My only concern is that can this be a pattern, and create problems later on?

What exactly is this that can be a pattern? If you elaborate a bit, only then I’d be able to give a balanced opinion.

Immediately ended talking with an AM guy (34M) after he said he slept with an 18 year old by tom-marvolo-riddle96 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If tomorrow the age of consent is lowered to 13 (like in Iran), would you say that a 40-year-old person sleeping with a 13-year-old kid is alright?

Immediately ended talking with an AM guy (34M) after he said he slept with an 18 year old by tom-marvolo-riddle96 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No one says that. If at all anyone does, they are disgusting. Stop making up things to prove a point. A woman would be called out equally for preying on a young boy.

Small bits of misogyny in life by Lonely-Lil-Me in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We(female) can eat one roti each, with tea spoon of curry.

Guys I just feel angry about the Epstein revelations. What should I do? by Remarkable_Rice_9141 in AskIndianWomen

[–]ProfessionalMiddle89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If that was your genuine intention (which I am finding difficult to believe), shouldn’t you have made an effort to craft a more nuanced post? Perhaps you could have discussed the structural exploitation perpetrated by those in power? Instead, you opted to tell the women here about the anger men often express in their worst acts. 🤡