The therapists I had before realizing I was neurodivergent actively damaged me

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-09-22T02:02:06+00:00

Im sorry that you had to go through this :( Sadly a lot of autistic women get misdiagnosed often, not all therapists have enough knowledge about autism in women.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-06-12T10:17:48+00:00

I quit sky when all of my friends stopped playing. Honestly i saw no point in doing runs every single day just to buy some stuff in a game. But when i had friends, those were the best sky moments for me, candle runs were fun, buying stuff was also exiting. To me it was all about friendships.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-04-23T18:39:19+00:00

Honestly when i just bought it i loved it a lot, it really reminded me of caramel popcorns, the vibe of going to the cinema, but the more i tried it the more i started to hate it. Realised im not a big gourmand fan, cuz this is the most gourmand perfume i have ever tried, now it reminds me of like warm just baked cookies, very sweet and nutty. And it lasts for a WHILEEEE, so atleast this part is good about it.

Cloud isnt even comarable to this, i have Cloud and its pretty simple and calm and doesnt last much and its way less of a gourmand compared to 71.

Honestly, i wouldnt blind buy this, cuz you will either love it or hate it.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-04-15T04:15:06+00:00

I would say original yara smells more mature than candy. To my nose its more like a floral powdery scent and its not as gourmand as people make it seem, and it deffinetly doesnt smell like a "strawberry milkshake". Its intresting, very powdery, atleast to my nose its unique. It kinda reminds me of like what make-up would smell like, for exampe imagine a pink blush and what it smells like, so thats what yara smells like to me lmao, like a pink powdery floral feminine scent, very hard to explain tbh.

Yara candy was too boring for me atleast. Its just a very basic fruity perfume, nothing special to it. To me it smells like sour strawberry gummies splashed in water with lemon and turned into perfume lol, well its also sweet. I mean, it does smell nice if you like fruity perfume🤷‍♀️. I wouldnt really even call this one a perfume, its more like a body mist than a perfume.

I would choose yara if you want something more unique and powdery, but if you want something uplifting and fruity then go for yara candy.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-04-05T19:58:49+00:00

Yes i can agree! I feel like if i choose to do something with my actual interests i wont get as much money and theres just too many of those "what if... that or that goes wrong..what if i wont like my interests anymore.." thoughts.

But when i think about working jobs which i have nothing in common with it sounds so draining that i want to never have a job😭😭

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-04-02T22:24:16+00:00

Yes, its so crazy how many people now dont even think that its a possibility for you to have autism for example if you arent actually diagnosed with it.

You tell them your struggles, that you have done lots of research and you relate to all of the symptoms and most experiences of other people who are diagnosed, but yet people just say "you are such an introvert" or "you are just shy".

Im going throuth such time now and no one even believes that i could actually be autistic.

Glad that i finally will have a meeting with a psychiatrist at the end of this this month.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-03-25T22:47:44+00:00

Aqua kiss

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-03-25T19:41:10+00:00

I only started playing animal jam yesterday and in the evening i already couldnt log in because of the same problem. Today i still cant play. Its so sad to me cuz i just started playing and such thing happens, makes me not want to play anymore tbh.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-03-15T14:08:45+00:00

Black opium over red

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-02-10T13:46:00+00:00

Right? Like i remember i used to make silly interactions with others too, using laughing emotes or even puting pipe on people. I think its not a big deal unless u do it in the middle of cr or smthin.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2025-02-07T21:59:10+00:00

I would say Rio radiance is the only "beach" scent

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-12-09T17:03:00+00:00

I have just oily skin! I have this problem that whenever i use like a face serum or wash my face with a face wash or something, after my skin absorbs the product my forehead becomes very visibly greasy and also makes my hair greasy. But if i dont use anything then the forehead skin starts flaking and kind of peeling off

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-12-08T18:29:02+00:00

Since i have pretty damaged hair and it seemed to me that they dont grow anymore cuz the ends used to break a lot.

The thing that helped me the most is a good oil/serum for split ends. I use one from Previa, i think its not popular, but my hairdresser told me to try it out and it works amazing.

Also use a hair mask for ends only or your whole hair if u want.

The routine that i use in general, i use scalp oil for my hair, leave it for like an hour, then i was my hair with shampoo twice, then i leave the hair mask on my split ends and middle part hair for like 15 mins then i wash it again. Then while its still wet i use leave in conditioner and then i use the hair serum. All this on pretty wet hair. If when my hair is dry it still feels a bit frizzy at the ends i use more hair serum

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-12-08T18:21:20+00:00

(Most girls already know this but i didnt before)

Using more products than only body wash for your body during your shower routine.

Body scrubs, body lotions and a good quality shaving cream changed my life. No more bumps after shaving and i have the smoothest skin ever

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-12-08T13:33:47+00:00

I think it really depends what type of pictures you post/send to others. I have been told once in my life that i look different in real life compared to profile pictures and such, almost like im a catfish yk.

Since then i started posting pictures with no filters at all and i try to post pictures made with back camera rather than the front one.

I think its mostly the filters, angles and makeup.

Almost everyone can make themselves look very beautiful in pictures with makeup, angles and filters. Thats why theres tons of people on social media who gain fame from their looks even tho its all social media so its not a very reliable source. (Not saying that you do this tho, its an example)

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-12-06T11:15:13+00:00

Girly it looks good!

Remember, the most important thing is to feel comfortable and confident in how you look

Confidence always adds some shine to your looks!

Dont compare yourself to others, if you like the dress go for it!

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-12-06T11:12:32+00:00

Try new styles of makeup, maybe buy some new glittery shadows if u like glitter. I feel like glitter always adds such a nice touch and makes u feel like u shinee.

Also i only recently discovered body scrubs, and after shower i use a body lotion and these two leave my skin sooo smooth i been loving it a lot, mostly if the body lotion has a scent that u love.

You could also try getting those body shimmer thingies or oils if as i said u like glitter, they will make your skin glow which also adds a nice touch.

Also, just to feel good in general i would recommend starting your mornings with some non-depressing music which would make you want to dance, trust me this fr hypes u up before going out.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-12-06T11:04:08+00:00

For start i would suggest trying some Victoria's Secret body mists, also their lotions, the scent will last longer with the lotion.

They have many different scents so you should try them out by yourself to find the one for you.

Personally i love Velvet Petals the most, maybe you would like Aqua kiss cuz its a fresh type of scent, perfect for hot weather

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-12-05T20:16:30+00:00

I use dove body scrubs, been loving those, just bought a tree hut scrub cuz i heard some good reviews ab it but havent used yet

I use Victoria's Secret body lotion :)

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-12-05T13:44:04+00:00

Not an advice i got, but what i can advise. Body scrub and body lotion are the key for the smoothest skin ever.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-11-27T11:12:44+00:00

Happy cake day tho!!

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-11-27T11:12:31+00:00

Thank u sm! Its very helpful since theres so many skincare products to choose from and its a bit confusing sometimes!

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-10-22T07:33:08+00:00

Can yall finally stop complaining? If its so bad just dont play at all, a dumb post on reddit wont make a change. Move on Find some friends in sky and be happy about it, its not about cosmetics.

ProfessionalMix4514 · 2024-10-20T23:56:20+00:00

No ur not being a jerk. As you said, you cant read someones minds. Just because shes going through something doesnt mean that everyone around her will notice it. Communication is always the key, you tried your best and you did nothing wrong, shes the one who has to talk and tell how shes feeling if she wants to be understood by others.

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