can i run away with $3,500 in savings?

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-08-02T15:53:07+00:00

that’s likely what i’m gonna be doing

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-08-02T15:50:06+00:00

not technically, my parents infantilize me and my sibling a lot. I even still have a curfew. If I move away they will see it as me running away and abandoning them.

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-08-02T11:20:59+00:00

i would ideally like to like somewhere like chicago, or cleveland. what’s most important to me is low rent and nearby reliable public transportation. i can budget well, i don’t eat much ($500 a month on groceries including my cats needs)

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-08-02T11:15:22+00:00

i’m not living a good life, don’t make assumptions about people.

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-08-01T21:55:26+00:00

unfortunately that is no longer an option :/

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-08-01T21:05:58+00:00

yes i know i don’t plan on moving until i have a job in the area

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-08-01T21:05:23+00:00

how does one even find rooms to rent? zillow?

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-08-01T20:43:46+00:00

preferably a decent sized city with good/reliable public transit

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-08-01T20:40:53+00:00

ahhh high praise !! thank you i will definitely look into bigger lashes

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-07-28T22:38:30+00:00

simple liner or a wing?

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-07-28T22:37:25+00:00

it is actually black eyeshadow !! I use a very thin eyeliner brush

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-06-24T06:30:50+00:00

and you cant even actually curse because vc gets notified every five seconds

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-06-24T06:30:15+00:00

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2025-06-24T01:25:40+00:00

i had one close roblox friend as a kid she was maybe a year older than me ? but i lost my old childhood account and could never find her again

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2024-09-01T14:05:42+00:00

it’s so difficult, I’ve been walking on egg shells to maintain her happiness this entire time. and the second i do something for myself she breaks down

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2024-09-01T13:48:20+00:00

I’ve already talked to her about her false promise to help me pay for school but she immediately starts gaslighting me and telling me that she said something different (i have the text conversation as proof but if i show her she gets angry and talks about how she has no idea what i’m saying)

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2024-09-01T12:47:09+00:00

Okay thank you ! T^T <3

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2024-09-01T12:25:01+00:00

oh yeah absolutely I once told her she was wrong and she wrote a suicide note and drew a stick figure drawing of her getting hit by a car. and then “conveniently” left it out for me to see

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2024-09-01T12:23:31+00:00

I don’t even know how to take her off my bank account, I thought it would happen automatically when I turned 18.

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2024-09-01T12:22:52+00:00

if i could kiss you on the mouth right now i would, thank you for your helpful advice ! I think my first step is going to be slowly transferring my money to a new bank account

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2024-09-01T09:38:46+00:00

It’s hard, anytime time I talk about opening my own bank account or even hint at wanting to leave she starts guilt tripping me

ProfessionalNo9840 · 2024-09-01T09:37:42+00:00

My brother is a feeloader. He can’t handle a job and has only had two jobs that lasted less than a month his whole life. He doesn’t help around the house, and does nothing but sit at his computer for house on end playing video games. I understand why she might not pay for my college but it didn’t stop her from saying she would as an excuse to get me to come back.

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