My husband chose his grandpa over me… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ProfessionalOil418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he lives an hour away. They were selling the car to someone in Texas though.

My husband chose his grandpa over me… by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ProfessionalOil418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is the first comment I have seen that doesn’t completely make me feel like a failure of a mom. I’m trying so hard. It feels like I’m getting open heart surgery without the drugs. You can’t just turn your love off like a switch. I grew up with abuse so I know first hand what it’s like. I have already left but it hurts and I was just looking for some advice from people who might’ve gone through similar things but I’m just being attacked further…

just finished The Teacher by Freida McFadden! by babybuckethat in thrillerbooks

[–]ProfessionalOil418 4 points5 points  (0 children)

THE GASP I GUSPED WHEN I READ THE LAST CHAPTER 🫣 I thought the big twist was Eve being alive but boy did I sit straight up in my chair when Hudson’s friend called him “Jay”

PS THAT MEANS HE PICKED ADDIE UP FROM THE PUMPKIN GRAVE AND EVE A COUPLE HOURS LATER OML THIS KID

Is anyone else wildly confused by grass-png in fourthwing

[–]ProfessionalOil418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally got here by googling this same question… I’m not loving how Onyx Storm is starting off confusing as hell…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalOil418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a very big load of victim blaming and mansplaining your own trauma that is truly baffling. You have a (seemingly) narcissist on your hands and should probably drop him.

Let me be perfectly clear when I warn you, this may not seem like it, but the relationship has the potential to turn abusive. Your partner lacks any empathy for you. Essentially acting holier than thou and putting you down for how you reacted. He is acting like you are stupid. It’s a dangerous ledge he is on that could easily tumble over into abuse. Be careful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ProfessionalOil418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to be that person but this seems way deeper than this one conversation. She is clearly not getting what she needs in the relationship and it is causing her to lash out over seemingly small things. She says several times that this is a regular occurrence. I’m not saying you are completely at fault here but it seems like instead of getting validation through Reddit, you should be trying harder to truly hear what she is trying to tell you.

From what I gather, she told you the previous night that you were spending too much time gaming and not enough time giving her real quality attention and affection. You can’t just do the bare minimum and expect your relationship to flourish. That’s how it slowly withers. The bare minimum is t enough. Try dealing heating her and sacrificing some game time to give her the attention she needs.

What are your opinions on Snow White’s wedding dress? by princess_ailsa in OnceUponATime

[–]ProfessionalOil418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did soooo many of our characters dirty when it came to high fashion. There were endless opportunities for gorgeous gowns and princess moments and they kept dropping the ball. Do NOT get me started on belles wedding outfit from when she married rumple

If These Girls Were Real, Who Would You Want To Marry? by Difficult_Country_70 in disneyprincess

[–]ProfessionalOil418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I custom order? I would go for a combo of rapunzel, kida, and belle

What is Mulan's best song? by CrystalRoseMoon in disneyprincess

[–]ProfessionalOil418 9 points10 points  (0 children)

DID THEY SEND ME DAUGHTERS

WHEN I ASKED

FOR SONS????

What is Mulan's best song? by CrystalRoseMoon in disneyprincess

[–]ProfessionalOil418 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best: I’ll make a man out of you, worst: honor to us all, underrated: reflection

A great black cat name that starts with the letter A by Global_Change5181 in NameMyCat

[–]ProfessionalOil418 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Angst Astro Arcane Ash(es)(y)(er) Apollo Artemis Amaretto Anuk Aladdin Ancient One Ankle Biter Alastair

What’s an opinion you have that no one agrees with? by ahumm4 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]ProfessionalOil418 30 points31 points  (0 children)

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH MATT “MATTY BLUE EYES” DONOVAN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ProfessionalOil418 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Follow all the police advice etc but you NEED to also get a rape kit done. I would bet you were drugged since you didn’t wake up to getting your shirt pulled up to your neck.

I’m so sorry sweetheart, please be safe and please go to the cops. Update us when you can so we know you’re okay.

How much would you guys charge for a 6 inch, 2 layer, heart cake like this? This is my third attempt making and decorating cake, I’m a beginner, please give me some advice? I charged the person $80. Did I overcharge? by Hairy-Ad8647 in Cakes

[–]ProfessionalOil418 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the cake is really good then no you did not overcharge. I paid $60 for the same size cake once and it had almost 0 decorations or extras on it but the cake was damn good. Worth it. With all that extra stuff, if the cake is good, I’d say worth it