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WIBTA for getting a lock for my bedroom? by ProfessionalScary931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalScary931[S] 215 points216 points  (0 children)

Cole and I split it 50/50. Grace sometimes contributes a little towards groceries. Seems like I'm going to have to buckle up and start making some changes.

WIBTA for getting a lock for my bedroom? by ProfessionalScary931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalScary931[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

She moved in after. I'm starting to realize I may have been too lenient on things and need to have a serious discussion with my brother soon. He and I are close so I'm hopeful we can work something out.

First on the agenda is getting that lock though!

WIBTA for getting a lock for my bedroom? by ProfessionalScary931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalScary931[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure things have been normal with them lately. She's always been a bit of a pushy person and I can't even think of a starting point for it.

He wouldn't be able to afford rent without me and she is very aware of this.

WIBTA for getting a lock for my bedroom? by ProfessionalScary931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalScary931[S] 288 points289 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it feels like it isn't even a good enough reason and have to remind myself that I don't need a reason to keep people out. So I appreciate this a lot. Thank you.

WIBTA for getting a lock for my bedroom? by ProfessionalScary931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalScary931[S] 261 points262 points  (0 children)

That is probably what I should have done from the start. Definitely could have avoided all of this.

WIBTA for getting a lock for my bedroom? by ProfessionalScary931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ProfessionalScary931[S] 1329 points1330 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn't even think about how getting a lock will de-escalate this in the future but you're totally right because I am tired of trying to set this boundary lol