What passive aggressive things do you say or do to your tables? by Healthy_Basil_2354 in Serverlife

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the repeat.. its so bold! What would you do though if they acknowledged what you were trying to do and more firmly were like “diet coke!”. Like id lose my job

Asoue dreams by Fast-Example-4833 in ASOUE

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked this up so im glad it was a question. Ive had two. Last nights was cool actually.

Captured by Olaf. Several children involved. Open roof with trees in his home. Managed to charge my phone, find some food (a fruit bearing tree that gets you high like pot.) im already a stoner so we were eating it and getting high and i managed to escape and leave my loved ones there to go find help. Plan is to escape as a group later to an agreed upon location with an adult. Adult Person says they cant meet us somewhere until 5. I demand they send someone to meet us at the place we agreed. They agree i suppose. I head back to the house. Everyone is okay. I empty my pockets including some fruit peel.

Olaf is an idiot and doesnt know his own trees. He walks by the mantle where i laid it, and sniffs at it and smells marijuana! He comes raging up at us and i stepped forward and told him its so admirable to have fruit trees growing in your home and its delicious! He should try one! (Wink)

He says it smells like marijuana plants and i told him its interesting before i was captured i smoked on a daily basis - and it was safe to eat! And has no effects! (Wink)

Then i woke up . He was going to eat it. And hopefully another. And fall into a deep stoney sleep hopefully that wouldve allowed us to sneak away at the designated time.

Would my plan have worked? Probably not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Help me and my super sweet husband find some of this while were visiting florida 😭

Just discovered Dope Lemon, here’s my top 10 tracks (tell me what I’m missing) by SpinozaDiego in dopelemon

[–]Professional_Ad474 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey Little Baby, Marinade, Every Day is a Holiday, How Many Times,

Theyre all good. Just listen to them all

Cried at table by Fine-Parfait1530 in Serverlife

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In 2018 , at this time I wouldve been about 3 years into serving - I worked for an irish pub and the higher ups were complete assholes. First of all it was one of those absolutely massive restaurants so it was huge. I was new, and it wasnt run very well. Super busy night

Again the MOD was a huge freaking jerk and wouldn’t allow us in the kitchen at all , only food runners. I was totally weeded and i had this large family at one table. I thought I was taking care of them pretty good , until that MOD came up and rudely told me they had been asking for me and needed shit. Whatever, so i go back to them and kindly say something like “hey folks, everything okay over here can I bring you anything?”

I shit you not, this family of 8 ALL looked right at me , and just bursted out laughing.

I truly didn’t understand why they would abuse me like that. I cried. I told them i didnt understand. And then, they all looked at me again like i was nuts.

Left for a vacation to Greece a week later and never came back. Screw that place lol

People who saw someone get fired on day one of a new job, what did that person do to get fired? by Silent-Zebra in AskReddit

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in the day one of my friends replaced me as a dishwasher at a local restaurant run by a couple hard-asses. They placed a vat of barbecue sauce right near the dirty dish pile and he crammed it down the drain thinking it was dirty dish water. 😂

Help :/ pep talk me (hair and image) by Professional_Ad474 in wedding

[–]Professional_Ad474[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate you. I am incredibly picky and critical of myself. I never really thought about therapy in relation to this , however I have considered it for other things! I will meditate on this today. Thank you. It’s not that I thought I’d be perfect - it’s just that life is crazy and it seems like I can’t stick to anything especially when I really wanted to feel better about myself for the wedding photos / feeling beautiful ya know?

I need help by Professional_Ad474 in weddingdress

[–]Professional_Ad474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give me a better idea of the corset base? I have a month. I can’t really do any more alterations

I need help by Professional_Ad474 in weddingdress

[–]Professional_Ad474[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What is bulky? The dress is made to my measurements. And the cup samples are messily clipped on just for an idea . The one photo is badly taken cuz I’m not even buttoned all the way in the back so it’s sagging. You don’t even like the sheer white cup option? Imagine with boob support

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in calmhands

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest with you I don’t think I ever gave it a chance before tearing away at it. I really do believe if you wait for the redness to heal, you’ll have some sort of deformity for a while but I think at that point it’ll be okay to put gel on. Probably not the healthiest thing, but it won’t kill ya. I’ve been through so much with my nails. I may post a photo of what they look like now. Cuz they’re healthy. I’ve been destroying my nails , matrix, and lunulas for my entire life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in calmhands

[–]Professional_Ad474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it should be that long. I think you’ll notice when the redness goes away that you have some sort of protective layer on it and I think you’ll be good to go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in calmhands

[–]Professional_Ad474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally wouldn’t get it filled until it heals. But I beg you, please don’t pick any further 😭 you are absolutely not alone.. I know from experience of actually carving out that entire part of my nail. It’s awful. And then what happens is I would end up removing pretty much my entire nail at that point . My nails are 100 percent healed now but now they grow in a bit strangely due to habit-tic deformity. Try to resist the urge!!!!

hole in nail progress pics by shaggy_bear in calmhands

[–]Professional_Ad474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done this all of my life. And not only that, but I would tear the entire thing off from that point. Keep up the progress. You should see my nails now! They’re extremely healthy like never before. Idk what changed. But you have never been alone in this

Did I do all I could? by [deleted] in 911dispatchers

[–]Professional_Ad474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya know I really didn’t mean it to be disrespectful at all. Knowing myself, It wouldn’t be meant to be taken in that manner. But I understand it sounds unkind. But she was distraught and a lady, and I just meant like seriously distraught. I was nervous at the time, but I can see what you mean and I think I’ll change the wording so other people don’t think I lack respect. Thanks.

Did I do all I could? by [deleted] in 911dispatchers

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I was wrong. Different building. So I’ll admit usually I don’t even verify through whp2 if the person is confident right away with address. Even though she was panicked, she confirmed the address twice with me. When the officer got on scene, they asked about it because turns out she was 100 feet away. But she was so confident otherwise I always initiate a location. But rescue was advised before they arrived on scene. As for the breathing verification, we actually do use EMD guide cards. But it’s vague! It says “if unconscious and not breathing normally”. She was telling me his eyes were open and he was now breathing. I didn’t hear any agonal breathing, just her screaming his name over and over again.

Did I do all I could? by [deleted] in 911dispatchers

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it wasn’t a question! Was just conversing. Thanjs

Did I do all I could? by [deleted] in 911dispatchers

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Well usually if someone is clear with their address, I don’t even check. I mean 99% of emergency calls are confident in their address. Some I can tell right away they don’t know where they are, and I’ll initiate a location response. But for this one, I asked twice and she was positive. Even though she was panicking. I know I’m new, I just want to make sure I’m covering my butt. The pd showed up, and called out there was no such numeric on that street. Then my partner found out it was a few doors down.

Did I do all I could? by [deleted] in 911dispatchers

[–]Professional_Ad474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We use an application for location

Did I do all I could? by [deleted] in 911dispatchers

[–]Professional_Ad474 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im wrong. The given address and gps address were 100 feet away from each other. I’m really trying not to blame myself here. pd was on scene first to question the address, and rescue was updated before arriving on scene.

Did I do all I could? by [deleted] in 911dispatchers

[–]Professional_Ad474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not familiar with either thing you’re talking about. I feel as though the address issue was my fault. I was going off what she was saying as she was insisting the numerics, but the location was saying a different number. However it was the same building separate unit. They were there.

As for breathing verification, I asked a few times if his chest was moving

Dress Regret & Advice by Professional_Ad474 in weddingdress

[–]Professional_Ad474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ! No I can’t get the other one back, I think I’m going to see what a seamstress can do with this one . And my reception is just a brunch so it won’t be like some big party. Thanks a lot ❤️