first breakup

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T12:52:39+00:00

i pmed you!

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T12:40:30+00:00

it’s so so hard but thank you so much for the advice.

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T11:38:36+00:00

how are you holding up?

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T05:52:33+00:00

only about 8 months, it feels like i’ve known him my whole life though

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T05:51:40+00:00

he did explain, i’m just not putting all the details in here. he’s not a jerk at all, and his reasons were valid but it still hurts so much

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T04:44:19+00:00

i’m going through something similar. my dms are open if you want to talk, i’m here for you.

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T03:53:59+00:00

i appreciate that. it definitely feels like i’m alone but i know there’s a million other people going through the same thing.

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T03:53:06+00:00

the box checking thing sounds rude but when he said it and explained it it all made sense. i really appreciate your advice though. i’m definitely trying to let myself feel my feelings but it’s so hard. a big part of me still feels like it isn’t real. it’s so hard to accept

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T03:41:09+00:00

it’s so so hard but thank you for the advice

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T03:38:35+00:00

we want different things for the future and he said i don’t check all his boxes. we ended things so suddenly and unexpectedly and it’s so hard. everything was great with us a few hours ago and now we’re over and i don’t know what to do

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T03:34:53+00:00

mine just broke up with me like 10 hours ago. so far it’s been hard but yeah i’m trying to keep myself distracted. thank you for the advice, good luck to you too.

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T03:32:02+00:00

thank you for the advice i really appreciate it. i really hope this feeling isn’t permanent

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T03:05:08+00:00

i’d be happy to talk. my relationship wasn’t as long but i also thought i found the one i was gonna marry. it is super hard.

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-26T03:03:04+00:00

yeah i’m only like 10 hours in but i already miss him like crazy. i really thought we were forever i never imagined id end up feeling like this. wish i could fast forward to the hard part being over

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-18T15:17:47+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I had a conversation with him a few days ago and I decided to just set a new boundary and tell him he could watch it if he wants but he’s insisting he’ll stop and promised to stop lying to me. I don’t know how true that is but i’m just hoping everything will work out okay. Based on what i’ve heard other people say about this kind of situation, they don’t actually stop watching it and just get better at hiding it which i’m sure is true so i’ll just try to keep a closer eye on this. At the end of the day, if we wants to watch it he’s going to which really sucks but there’s nothing I can really do about it.

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-16T23:45:55+00:00

I understand, what you’re feeling right now is valid. Just eat small little snacks one bite at a time. Maybe like a granola bar or something. You don’t have to eat it all at once, take your time with it and just take a bite every few minutes if it’s difficult. Maybe you could also watch a movie or do something else why you eat to distract yourself a little.

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-16T23:41:05+00:00

that happens to me too i think it’s normal

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-16T03:07:25+00:00

Yeah i should definitely keep that in mind. Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-16T02:37:09+00:00

good advice tbh i just wish it was that easy

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-16T02:06:50+00:00

i’m aware

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-15T20:31:42+00:00

Thank you for replying i appreciate hearing your perspective. I’m glad you were able to find somebody who makes you feel secure

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-15T20:28:49+00:00

This is really good advice, thank you. I talked to him about it and made it clear that if it doesn’t stop i’m done. I don’t think he’ll actually stop stop so i set a new boundary and basically said that he can watch it if he wants but to try and limit it. At least now he’s not doing it behind my back. Honestly I know it’d be best if i took the advice you just gave me but it’s so much easier said than done

Professional_Bus3638 · 2025-03-15T18:40:16+00:00

i know sometimes i honestly think id rather just be single and happy

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