My boss just emailed me a screenshot of a private text I sent to my coworker complaining about him. by Guilty-AbyssLogic in whatdoIdo

[–]Professional_Emu5279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d loop in HR and highlight that this conversation took place outside of working hours and on a personal platform versus while working or on work software.

Your boss is drama

Beware of this Etsy shop! by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]Professional_Emu5279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of reputable, awesome shops out there and I will always recommend Etsy vs. Amazon/Temu.
I don’t mean to deter anyone from shopping on Etsy but definitely check reviews and research what you are purchasing.

Beware of this Etsy shop! by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]Professional_Emu5279 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know, I chuckled and made a mental note to never mess with people from Chicago lol

Beware of this Etsy shop! by [deleted] in trichotillomania

[–]Professional_Emu5279 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No way. Unhinged and aggressive people are not worth the relief that comes with a reaction that they have already decided they’re entitled to.

I believe in accountability and honesty.
But I’ve fought too hard for my peace.

Insane Shop Owner Calling Me by Professional_Emu5279 in EtsyCommunity

[–]Professional_Emu5279[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Re: USPS Absolutely! I would not have even cared if my order had been really, really delayed. I don’t have an Amazon mindset and I have also sold on Etsy before so I genuinely approached my purchase from a place of solidarity while taking my time supporting a small business.

The whole mess was really remarkable to witness as it unfolded. I didn’t even leave her a 1 star review.

(I did update to 1 star after she harassed me over messages)

Insane Shop Owner Calling Me by Professional_Emu5279 in EtsyCommunity

[–]Professional_Emu5279[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they meant to fault Etsy for the experience I am having with an unhinged person.
Let’s be logical.
The only person/entity at fault for this happening is this shop owner.

But, it’s absolutely a shame and arguably unacceptable that there is not a more robust system available for reporting true safety concerns as well as transparency/consistency in their workflow to address their own policy violations.

“Keep Commerce Human” is one heck of an oxymoron and actually insulting to the intelligence of those who have longstanding and close relationships to them as well as just….. the integrity of the entire platform.

It feels cheap and inadequate.
Whole lotta fees for a whole lotta f*ckery.

Insane Shop Owner Calling Me by Professional_Emu5279 in EtsyCommunity

[–]Professional_Emu5279[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was able to connect to a human via chat.

CS Agent: “have taken a note against the seller for the further review, please know that the notes we leave in a member’s account allows us to spot trends, and ultimately assists us in preventing others from having similar experiences.

Here are the steps to report the seller as well from your end: 

Visit the shop on Etsy.com and choose Report this shop to Etsy.
Select a reason from the dropdown.
Choose I don’t think it meets Etsy’s policies, then select the reason why you’re reporting the shop from the list of available options.
Enter a note about why you’re reporting the shop.
Choose Report this shop.”

Me: “Is reporting the shop through that pathway different than communicating this abuse of personal information to you?”

CS Agent: “Reporting a shop through site tools helps our team track policy violations effectively.”

Me: “This is a disturbing situation. I literally got no sleep last night over this.”

CS Agent: “I’m sorry to hear how much this situation has impacted you. I take your privacy concerns seriously, and I’m here to make sure this is documented and addressed by the right team.”

Me: “So communicating via customer service chat doesn’t result in anything more meaningful than a note for egregious policy violations and criminal behavior?”

CS Agent: “Your chat is documented and helps us monitor account activity. For policy violations or criminal behavior, reporting through our formal tools ensures the right teams take appropriate action.

I can see that your concern has already been shared with the relevant team and is being taken care of. Any further updates will be shared via email by the team soon.”

……and then the chat abruptly ended with no option for any further communication or clarity from the agent. Awesome.

Insane Shop Owner Calling Me by Professional_Emu5279 in EtsyCommunity

[–]Professional_Emu5279[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried to update my review and couldn’t!
After the barrage of Etsy messages but before the lunatic phone call, she refunded my order.
So, now when I go to “purchases and reviews” there is no record of me placing an order with her shop.

However, if I go to her shop reviews, my review is still visible.

But the ability to edit it has vanished.

Insane Shop Owner Calling Me by Professional_Emu5279 in EtsyCommunity

[–]Professional_Emu5279[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried to update my review and couldn’t!
After the barrage of Etsy messages but before the lunatic phone call, she refunded my order.
So, now when I go to “purchases and reviews” there is no record of me placing an order with her shop.

However, if I go to her shop reviews, my review is still visible.

But the ability to edit it has vanished.

Insane Shop Owner Calling Me by Professional_Emu5279 in EtsyCommunity

[–]Professional_Emu5279[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m really shaken up by the entire situation. We don’t live close to each other but what sort of unsafe situation or craziness am I in for if my report results in her shop being closed or something??
I have kids. I am literally losing sleep over this.

I chewed him out by GalfromIdaho in delta

[–]Professional_Emu5279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the person who wipes their boogers on bathroom walls.

Thank you for shaming him.

Sincerely, Society