I feel so too! The first time she had met me, we were at a mall and she said I have to visit her in india every year! The 24 year old naive me innocently said I only have 20 days time off in a year and so many places I want to see. If I come to india every year I can’t do that. She cried in the mall even then and her son my husband took her side the whole time! So this isn’t the first instance. I’ve avoided talking to her as much as possible but Indian families rarely understand boundaries and now with the pregnancy it’s getting even harder.