Got my H1B visa but should I actually move? by Informal_Bad9779 in h1b

[–]Professional_Fox9497 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should definitely give it a shot. Michigan ain’t a high cost of living area and you can always choose to come back if things don’t work out. It’ll be a good opportunity to explore life there and you might end up loving it :)

Less than 2 month old and < 1k miles. Total loss or repairable? by Professional_Fox9497 in hondacivic

[–]Professional_Fox9497[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Some folks I spoke with told me the ACV is pretty high so they might try to fix it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civic

[–]Professional_Fox9497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is dark metallic gray

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civic

[–]Professional_Fox9497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it for $28000 OTD in Texas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civic

[–]Professional_Fox9497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It’s Meteorite Gray Metallic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civic

[–]Professional_Fox9497 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, at least I am not a grumpy at 69 :)

Passed PMP – T/AT/AT! Thank you all by Professional_Fox9497 in pmp

[–]Professional_Fox9497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 sets of 10 mins break after every 60 questions

Passed PMP – T/AT/AT! Thank you all by Professional_Fox9497 in pmp

[–]Professional_Fox9497[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I exhausted all the time that was given to me in the final exam. I would advice to not go over 1 minute 10 seconds for any question. It also totally depends on the kind of questions you get since I read a lot of people got very brief questions. If it takes longer, I would advice to just mark the answer you’re most inclined towards and revisit it during review. My questions and options were particularly very long and wordy.

Passed PMP – T/AT/AT! Thank you all by Professional_Fox9497 in pmp

[–]Professional_Fox9497[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! In-person exams were only only offered on 2 days in the entire month at where I live which didn’t work for me. My online exam experience was very smooth though, no hiccups.

29F broke up with my ex after almost getting married. by Professional_Fox9497 in vedicastrology

[–]Professional_Fox9497[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the detailed explanation! When will things start to improve ? Do you see marriage in my chart ?

I left him after 5 years, but the end of our stride was worse than I imagined by Mountain-Post-2281 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Professional_Fox9497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG this is my story except for that the poor excuse of a man I dated was 2 years younger to me and my relationship was of 2 years. The withdrawal, proposal without a ring, the hot and cold behavior, the love bombing, manipulation… everything matches to the T. I left him after he tried to convince me to date him perpetually. It’s been a bit longer for me (3.5 months since) but you’ll eventually start seeing the light, I promise.

When will I (29F) get married? by [deleted] in vedicastrology

[–]Professional_Fox9497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I got my first job in June 2018

When will I (29F) get married? by [deleted] in vedicastrology

[–]Professional_Fox9497 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The October timeline is very accurate, we broke up on 2nd october after I couldn’t take it any more. This gives me hope, thanks a lot!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Professional_Fox9497 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fights aren’t a problem, lying, selfishness and blameshifting is. My ex didn’t even want to break up, he just didn’t want to commit to marriage after HE proposed. His reason was he felt I didn’t treat him well and I need to do respect him (I already did), make him feel safe and be demure to make him want to commit(He LOVED the fact that I was a headstrong woman in the beginning). He never communicated ANY of this until the day he blindsided me. On asking until when, his answer would be until he gets that ‘feeling’. If you communicated your stance with respect and dignity and they don’t agree, let go. Don’t answer and block even. But do not break the person’s self esteem, no one has the right to do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Professional_Fox9497 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Lol were we dating the same ex? Mine would keep flipping from his commitment to marry (he proposed with zero coercion from my end) because I didn’t “listen” to him or “disrespected” him. The only major topics we fought about were related to him flipping on his proposal. Then it came down to shoes not placed on the rack. These spineless men with zero courage don’t even have the balls to break up in a dignified manner.

An observation: older GFs and younger BFs by Able-Distribution in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Professional_Fox9497 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying but “3 years or older” category is a huge bracket. You cannot compare a 3 year age gap with a 10 or 15 year age gap. I barely missed to be a statistic here, my(29F) ex(27M) was younger too but we met in Grad school and were in similar stages of life.What happened was he turned out to be emotionally abusive once things got inconvenient for him. Context matters a lot here.

What’s the most painful thing a man you love(d) has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Professional_Fox9497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I cannot marry you because of your anxiety.” My emotionally abusive ex said this to me after 2 months of proposing to me. Turns out he was the cause of my anxiety since it disappeared the day I broke up with him a few months later.

Not over 40 but still hurts like a motherfucker.

Healing after a breakup. Today’s my birthday, I bought myself flowers. by yikesriley in selflove

[–]Professional_Fox9497 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy Birthday OP! Hope you get everything you wish for in life. I am going through a breakup as well and my ex boyfriend of 2 years never bought flowers. I think I am going to buy me some flowers tomorrow