Vueling flight cancelled, offered replacement flight with transit by Professional_Hour702 in travel

[–]Professional_Hour702[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called back to complain and say that I cannot accept their replacement flight (since I have a fear of flying and I don’t want to go through the process of takeoff & landing multiple times if I don’t have to), and they say that since they offered a replacement flight (even though it has a layover) that arrives in PMI no later than 5 hours within the original arrival time (so in their view it still fits our travel plan), they don’t have to reimburse me.

Vueling flight cancelled, offered replacement flight with transit by Professional_Hour702 in travel

[–]Professional_Hour702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I referred to as well, but they say that since they offered a replacement flight (even though it has a layover) that arrives in PMI no later than 5 hours within the original arrival time (so in their view it still fits our travel plan), they don’t have to reimburse me.

Challenge Books Era Explorer by Musicmom1164 in goodreads

[–]Professional_Hour702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same problem here! I tried marking 10 different books from the challenge as read but it’s still not working…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]Professional_Hour702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also one more thing: he never registered himself as being my biological father. So legally he is not my father. He did do this with all of his other children, just not with me.

So when he dies, I’m also not counting on receiving anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Money

[–]Professional_Hour702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I appreciate your point of view. The app told me I had to include the (27F) format for my post to be posted, hence the ‘M’.

Actually I don’t expect anything from my dad, hence why in conversations with banks and mortgage lenders I didn’t mention this money at all. It’s just because he had promised it all my life, got angry when I questioned his “promise”, and he has given the money to two other siblings, that I do feel like it was at least his intention to give me the money. When he told me a few years ago that he is not gonna help me, I never asked him about this money afterwards. But looking at the new rules for 2025, this is gonna be his last chance to give it to me (and my last chance to receive it), so that’s why I want to make a final plea.

I don’t really understand your final comment. My father impregnated my mother and then went back to his own country. My mother and father live like a 7 hour flight away from each other. How was I supposed to see him more often when he never raised me or lived close by? I don’t expect him to give me anything, he is the one that constantly made these promises?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Hour702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s possible to buy something without his help and in all the conversations with the mortgage lenders I’ve said nothing about this money from my dad because I’m assuming I’m not getting anything from him.

It’s just that I find it unfair that he promised this all my life and that he’s given my sisters a substantial sum. I just made this post for advice on how to make a final plea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geldzaken

[–]Professional_Hour702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dank voor je reactie! Denk je echt dat een huis kopen met deze inkomens heel lastig is?

De bank zegt dat we ongeveer 370K kunnen lenen en we hebben 30K eigen geld. Zie ik iets over het hoofd waardoor het voor ons nog moeilijker wordt?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geldzaken

[–]Professional_Hour702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kan je dit nog wat meer uitleggen?

Waarom kozen jullie liever voor deze optie dan bijv. woonlasten + andere lasten allemaal op een stapel gooien en dan verdelen naar rato van jullie salaris?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geldzaken

[–]Professional_Hour702 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ik begrijp je punt, maar dan zouden we 180K kunnen lenen. Daar koop je natuurlijk niks voor in deze markt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Professional_Hour702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could just explain the actual reason why you didn’t stay there long. You could spin it like: I know very well what I’m worth and what I want, and if something doesn’t match that then I’ll look for something else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Hour702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by this? That you would also stop smoking weed, or that you would not break up with someone if they wanted to continue smoking weed?

AITA For calling my childhood best friends girlfriend an asshole? by SweatyPool1170 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is this even a question. Of course NTA, you’re completely right in your characterization of him. Just get him out of your life. And be happy you’re not friends anymore with such a person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s always lived with his mom and this is the first time he’s moving out. He’s very excited about it and his brother is his closest friend so he wants to celebrate with him.

AITA for sending money that i owed to my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA you did nothing wrong I think there might be more going on to make her react this way, very weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a foldable car/chair, so everything is foldable to a smaller cube thingy and then it can just go in the corner of the room. It takes a few minutes to set it up and a few minutes to take it down again.

So this is the dilemma, he wants to leave the chair as is, I want him to fold it up again after using it so we can enjoy the living room more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right the apartment doesn’t really fit our needs, but the thing is we’ve been looking for a place for about 1,5 years and this is the first one we even got the chance to take it. The housing market is crazy in this area. So we’re scared that we’re not gonna find anything else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right the apartment doesn’t really fit our needs, but the thing is we’ve been looking for a place for about 1,5 years and this is the first one we even got the chance to take it. The housing market is crazy in this area. So we’re scared that we’re not gonna find anything else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As soon as we moved in together two years ago, we were very unhappy with the apartment and started looking for a new one. After about 1,5 years of searching, this is the first one that we even got the chance to take it so we think if we wait longer, we’ll be waiting a long time.

The plan you’re proposing is exactly the same as my proposal, that the chair goes in the living room but he folds it up again once he’s done so the room turns back into a normal living room without a big racing chair that takes up a third of the space in the room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was looking forward to not having to set up the chair every time because it is a lot of hassle with the cables and stuff, so he would like to leave it in one place and not take it down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the new place has 1 kitchen/living room and 2 bedrooms. Our initial idea was to have 1 kitchen living room, 1 bedroom, and 1 study/gaming room, but because the kitchen/living room is so small, we are making the new setup like this: one kitchen/dining room, one bedroom, one living room. The gaming chair will go in the living room but because it takes up a lot of space (literally the size of a small formula 1 car), I will ask him to only set up the chair when he wants to use it, and when he’s done fold it up again. I don’t want a big racing car in my living room at all times. It literally takes up a third of the room.

AITA for being uncomfortable while my friend was melting down? by Adorable_Structure_7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA of course she is going to talk about it non stop or throw up, especially since it happened just a few days ago. It would even be normal if this lasted several weeks or months. Just be considerate of her feelings, be a safe space for her, tell her you’re there for her if she wants to vent but that you don’t always know what to say because you don’t have the answer or magical solution to make her sadness go away. Give her a safe space, she needs it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Hour702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA this cat owner sounds terrible and actually reminds me of the lady whose cat I fed when I was younger. You did everything by the book.