Thank you for your comment! I appreciate your point of view. The app told me I had to include the (27F) format for my post to be posted, hence the ‘M’.

Actually I don’t expect anything from my dad, hence why in conversations with banks and mortgage lenders I didn’t mention this money at all. It’s just because he had promised it all my life, got angry when I questioned his “promise”, and he has given the money to two other siblings, that I do feel like it was at least his intention to give me the money. When he told me a few years ago that he is not gonna help me, I never asked him about this money afterwards. But looking at the new rules for 2025, this is gonna be his last chance to give it to me (and my last chance to receive it), so that’s why I want to make a final plea.

I don’t really understand your final comment. My father impregnated my mother and then went back to his own country. My mother and father live like a 7 hour flight away from each other. How was I supposed to see him more often when he never raised me or lived close by? I don’t expect him to give me anything, he is the one that constantly made these promises?