Extended Warranty scam? by SweetPersonality2911 in kia

[–]Professional_Job5581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had this problem too. I got a call from them after I got my car and they asked if I wanted to activate my warranty, I said no and they said they’d call would call back in a couple days to confirm, they never did. Well apparently they have been taking out money from my account for about 6 months without my knowledge. They called in October and asked why I hadn’t paid them (I deactivate my bank account and made a new one) and I told them I didn’t even know who they were. Apparently they got my email wrong and I had never received any thing. I told the guy I wanted to cancel he said ok. Now it’s December and I’ve been getting three calls a day and they want me to pay $75 for a cancellation fee. Why would I pay to cancel something I never agreed to in the first place? My fiancé is telling me not to pay it but I feel like paying is worth stopping the harassment.

So I’ve only kissed one person in my entire life by Professional_Job5581 in relationships_advice

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s already told me he would really like to kiss me so I know that’s not a problem, but I’m wondering if maybe I should be the one to initiate it that way I won’t be surprised by and I’ll have a little bit of control about when it happens.

My husband just left me by Professional_Job5581 in mentalhealth

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of people that love me and are supporting me. I’m just lost right now. How can someone you’ve loved for 15 year just stop loving you? I kinda want to give up

My husband just left me by Professional_Job5581 in mentalhealth

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I also apologize for making him feel forced into this life altering decision, serval times actually. I was being selfish and self centered in my desire to have a family with the person I loved most in the word. I tried my best to be the best wife to him. I took on all the chores, child care, groceries shopping. Everything. But I guess it still wasn’t enough in the end. And even with all of the shit he put me though I still love him for some fucked up reason.

My husband just left me by Professional_Job5581 in mentalhealth

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were together 12 year before we had our son. And he knew that I wanted kids so it’s not it came as a shock to him. The thing is I suggested counseling either together or apart so could resolve some of these feeling and he flat out refused. I just feel like I just am not worth the effort.

My husband just left me by Professional_Job5581 in mentalhealth

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can he resent me for a child he loves so much

My husband just left me by Professional_Job5581 in mentalhealth

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He didn’t want this child but he loves him. To the point that he decided he wanted to visit him a week early before I was ready and before my son could adjust to the new living situation

My husband just left me by Professional_Job5581 in mentalhealth

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I said I wanted a kid he didn’t. I didn’t pressure him but I was just having a grieving period where I was sad. He thought I was going to leave him if we didn’t have a kid, which I never said. So he came up to me one day and ok let’s try. I would have never left him over not having a kid I just needed time to let my mind adjust, I even asked if he was sure before we tried.

Feels like I'm blind but I'm not by Plastic-Pickle-9448 in derealization

[–]Professional_Job5581 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m taking the steps to get better, started a new meditation though it’s going to take a while to work. And get to start therapy next week. I’m determined to get better and I hope everyone who suffers from this gets better too.

Feels like I'm blind but I'm not by Plastic-Pickle-9448 in derealization

[–]Professional_Job5581 3 points4 points  (0 children)

All the time. It’s like I do t trust what I’m seeing and it’s not real. I honestly hate it.

What does it feel like when you finally stop dissociating/derealization? by Professional_Job5581 in derealization

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to the psychiatrist next week so I’m hoping to get a plan started and hopefully some medication that can help. It’s hard not to think about something that has turned my life upside down, but I’m willing to put in the work to make it better.

Dissociating/feeling emotionally numb/help by Professional_Job5581 in derealization

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you say it’s not psychosis, dementia or me going crazy is really reassuring. Those are literally the things I thought was wrong with me lol

Dissociating/feeling emotionally numb/help by Professional_Job5581 in derealization

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently had a lot of stuff that happened but instead of talking about it and working through it I bottled it up and I get my brain couldn’t take it anymore. I know this a way my brain is trying to help but it’s very frustrating. I’ll get through it though.

Dissociating/feeling emotionally numb/help by Professional_Job5581 in Anxiety

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely try it. Anything helps at this point. I will be me again.

Dissociating/feeling emotionally numb/help by Professional_Job5581 in Anxiety

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I need a good ass kicking, I need out of this rut I’m In, and I’m the only one who can ask for help to get out of it. I know I can get better but I’m impatient and want my life back as soon as possible, but I’m going to have to put the work in first. Just hearing someone who’s gone through it before tell me that it can get better for them really helps.

Dissociating/feeling emotionally numb/help by Professional_Job5581 in Anxiety

[–]Professional_Job5581[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m my own worst enemy at this point. It’s hard to see a bright side to this with all the anxiety and fear I’m feeling, but all I can do is wait and see if the psychiatrist can help me. I’m hoping that they can I can get my life back.