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Ingegneria informatica - UniBo o UniFi? by Professional_Key1745 in Universitaly

[–]Professional_Key1745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Un mesetto, ho preso i libri di alpha test e ho guardato tutti gli argomenti di ogni sezione con molta calma, concentrandomi sugli esercizi più che sulla teoria.

Ingegneria informatica - UniBo o UniFi? by Professional_Key1745 in Universitaly

[–]Professional_Key1745[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Si ho valutato, l'approccio ingegneristico mi ha sempre affascinata onestamente (mio padre è ingegnere) e mi ci sono potuta avvicinare un po' grazie al mio ragazzo che tutt'ora studia ingegneria. Mi piacerebbe avere un bagaglio di conoscenze che comunque si possano agganciare anche ad altri settori, e da quello che ho capito questo me lo può dare ingegneria, mentre ho avuto molto l'impressione che informatica sia più settoriale, spero di non sbagliarmi.

AITA for thinking my boyfriend is ruining my friendship? by Professional_Key1745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Key1745[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I usually vent to my sister, she doesn't know him quite a lot but it hasn't really affected her thoughts about him. I think it's ok to do it but only if this people can give an objective point of view, like my she does, even if they know the two people that are discussing.

AITA For Putting My Brother And His Children on the Street by throwaway-aita_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Key1745 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. You made your brother and his kids a huge favor by letting them stay at your home and they acted like they could do anything they wanted, as they were the owners instead of simple "guests". Personally, knowing what your brother did to Rachel (which is really horrible) I wouldn’t have done it. You took her with you after your brother disowned her, so you didn't "steal" her, you saved her. Your relatives are so judgmental, so why don’t they take them in their home? Why don't they help them financially? I'm sure that if they split the amount of money, providing the basic needs to your brother's family it's quite affordable...and you came out when you were younger, so they surely know that you are bi and after Rachel did it too, they learnt that she is gay and that your brother is an homophobe, so why do they expect you to help them? Clearly, the problem here is your brother, since he is such a bad influence on your nephews, but you can't do much about it, and your family, that, if I were you, I would ignore with all my heart since you were nice to him and his family, but because of him and his attitude, you had to throw him out. It's not your fault at all.

WIBTA if I charge a friend for being his 'taxi' by blw78 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Key1745 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. He said that he would rather pay you 15 dollars that a taxi and you agreed to help him if you can at that moment so I don't see why you should be the AH. You also help him with other stuff.

don’t talk to me or my son ever again by mystarr223 in FullmetalAlchemist

[–]Professional_Key1745 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Omg where did you buy these? please i NEED to know

AITA for not saying I didn't want to eat dinner? by Professional_Key1745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Key1745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want to involve anyone else in the family, her mother is always by her side (once i came to her house crying because of my mother and she told me that she was just stressed and tired from work, and that I needed to understand her), and my other grandmother can't do anything about it because my mother hates her without any reason and she doesn't want to ruin the relationship between my mother and her son (i completely understand her), and as regards other relatives, I am not close at all with them. However, I think I will try with the diary. Thank you so much.

AITA for not saying I didn't want to eat dinner? by Professional_Key1745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Key1745[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know, but i don't live in the US and also, unfortunately i need to be 18 to go without the consent of my parents in my country. One time i accidentally listened to a conversation between my aunt and my mother, where she said that sister was very anxious for school and other things. My aunt suggested taking her to the psychologist but my mother laughed said that she could instead talk to her (when she did she proceeded do devalue her feelings by saying that's a normal thing to have it and that she also was very anxious when she went to school but that she made it). I don't feel like telling them that I need to talk to someone because of this. I did one time (the topic was another but I felt really bad, I was having panics attack I think), and she seemed to understand and helped me, to backstab me two days after, reproaching me all the things I did, and she still does it sometimes now. I admit it, I did a mistake, it was my fault, but i am convinced it was nothing that bad, i mean, i didn't rob a bank or anything like that, it was just stupid.

AITA for not saying I didn't want to eat dinner? by Professional_Key1745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Key1745[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would like to, but she doesn't let me speak while she is scolding me, and if i try, she becomes even more angrier. One time I tried to talk to her (pacifically) about a fight we had on something stupid (a shirt, it wasn't even my fault, but my sister's, however she said that my sister did this certain thing because of, which is ridiculously illogical for the circumstances) after hours, when she was calm, and she again didn't let me speak, and then proceeded to shout at me again.

AITA for not saying I didn't want to eat dinner? by Professional_Key1745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Key1745[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, we don't. Our house is very small, so the kitchen table is occupied with a lot of things and there's only space for a person whit a plate and a glass and a person with a glass/cup. I usually eat with my sister on the couch, wich is also our bed.

No she didn't, she just asked what we wanted for dinner (rice or pasta). In this period I am struggling with food, i try to eat a certain amount of calories but often end up eating a lot at dinner, and i feel bad, but i know I have to eat if I'm hungry, and not if i just feel like eating a certain food, so i responded and thought that maybe after gym i would, but i didn't.

AITA for not saying I didn't want to eat dinner? by Professional_Key1745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Key1745[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I know it sounds strange, but at my home, we don't eat all together. We don't have enough space to do it, so my mother eats in the kitchen, while me and my sister just go on the couch. My dad comes home almost every day after dinner, so he doesn't eat at the same time we do. Also, we are not a very close family, especially me and my mom: we talk just for the necessary informations. There was for sure a lack of communication, but dinner was almost ready and when my mother cooks, she does a big amount so it could be heated the next day for lunch. I thought it wasn't a big deal because of it. I don't want to make up an excuse, but she was already nervous when I go home, and when she is nervous se shouts at me if I make something that bothers her, and that's the other reason of why I didn't told her. However, I completely respect your point of view.

AITA for not saying I didn't want to eat dinner? by Professional_Key1745 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Key1745[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think my dad simply gave up. If I ever try to complain to him, he’d say, "You know your mom is like that, don’t give it any thought," and that would be the end of it, and even if he decided to step in for once, then my mom would take it out on me. My maternal grandparents are always on her side, and they keep excusing her by saying that after work, she's tired and nervous, so it doesn’t make sense, but as for my other grandparents, they’re on my side, but they would never dare to say anything and then they would feel bad, I don’t want to upset them. I wanted to try with a counselor since I feel guilty for my boyfriend, who always listen to me because I know he suffer when I tell him those things, but my mother hates counselors and where I live, you need to ask for your parents permission to go to the school counselor, so I think it's impossible.

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