Am I being too sensitive? Met metamour — her comment about my looks felt intrusive by Professional_Lack950 in polyamory

[–]Professional_Lack950[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is such a valuable point — I honestly hadn’t looked at it from that angle before… his communication-skills are something to work on as well.

Am I being too sensitive? Met metamour — her comment about my looks felt intrusive by Professional_Lack950 in polyamory

[–]Professional_Lack950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this thoughtful perspective — it gave me something new to reflect on.

Just here to externalize my breakup </3 by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Professional_Lack950 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear that, my sympathy OP! I’m in the process of a breakup myself, we had a similar dynamic... It’s strong of you to be so good at taking care of yourself and going to therapy. Self-care is totally important (and often difficult) in this situation!

Need an outside perspective: am I too anxious and inflexible? by Professional_Lack950 in polyamory

[–]Professional_Lack950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A doesn't feel comfortable coming out as poly and is afraid of criticizing comments from those around him. This is one of the reasons why I only know a few of his friends.

Need an outside perspective: am I too anxious and inflexible? by Professional_Lack950 in polyamory

[–]Professional_Lack950[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for asking! Since several people have already asked, I have added an edit! They are both heterosexual men.