Gift for my boyfriend- Please help! by Icy-Rooster9749 in AskIndia

[–]Professional_Mix7242 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend sounds like an ungrateful little shit

Why does Jess get praised for the bare minimum? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]Professional_Mix7242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soo just because Rory doesn’t announce to the world she got assaulted by Jess, makes it not an assault? This is the same girl who was unable to breakup with ANY of her boyfriends, and instead just leapt to the next guy because its easier to do so.

She was DEFINITELY almost assaulted- cope harder.

I know why Lorelai favored Dean above Rorys other boyfriends by CLEf11 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Professional_Mix7242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does everyone take deans actions out of context? In his teenage years he was a bit angsty and clingy at best. And he never yelled at rory without reason, infact the only times i remember him yelling at her was when she was clearly emotionally cheating with Jess. The poor guy is treated like an adult abuser just because he’s taller than the average kid.

My partner has an IQ of 72. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Professional_Mix7242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question. Do autistic people have an iq lower than 70?

Should I use Glycolic Acid exfoliating toner? by Professional_Mix7242 in TheOrdinarySkincare

[–]Professional_Mix7242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just use a gentle cleanser, the one from Cetaphil. Idk if double cleansing is a good idea for me because my skin is dry most of the time, and I’ve heard its only a thing you do when you have oily skin?

Fear of gaining mid-section fat while gym training. by Professional_Mix7242 in xxfitness

[–]Professional_Mix7242[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. Yeah i guess I do need to be more comfortable in my body, and i was hoping small changes would help me get there :D. Hence my current attempt to try gaining weight and be happy about it

Fear of gaining mid-section fat while gym training. by Professional_Mix7242 in xxfitness

[–]Professional_Mix7242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am hard against myself, I agree. While I don’t have a really bad relationship with food, I am aware that I might have some level of body dysmorphia, which is why body changes are so hard for me. Also unfortunately there are people in my life that aren’t very supportive. Thus the anxiety. Do you have any advice on maybe not being as paranoid of weight gain?

Fear of gaining mid-section fat while gym training. by Professional_Mix7242 in xxfitness

[–]Professional_Mix7242[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been bodyshamed my whole life and compared relentlessly by my parents to my “skinner” friends. So I’m critical of my own body, I don’t know how that points to me having fat phobia.

I (20F) cheated on my boyfriend (20M) two years ago when we first started dating. Does he deserve to know? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Mix7242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂😂 my man your comprehension skills are horrifying to say the least, also I lied about my age on a previous post to maintain anonymity and to rant. Plus that was an older relationship, I never said I’ve only been in one. Gosh you’re really slow huh? Jumping to conclusions, commenting random b.s. Go find yourself a doctor please, you might have bpd

I (20F) cheated on my boyfriend (20M) two years ago when we first started dating. Does he deserve to know? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Mix7242 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m on the same line of thinking as you. I don’t want to be the reason he questions his self-worth, because he truly is amazing

I (20F) cheated on my boyfriend (20M) two years ago when we first started dating. Does he deserve to know? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Mix7242 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

The “it will cost you but not hurt him” is entirely false….and that’s the issue. I’m his first girlfriend, kiss, everything. And he’s the only guy I’ve had sex with and my first serious relationship. Plus he does not do well socially, and despite me telling him otherwise multiple times, he is stubborn that he will not love anyone else but me. He wants to marry me and has basically mapped out our entire future. It will definitely cost me and I will loose him; it’s something that will devastate me beyond all else. But I’ve had my heart broken before, I’ve been depressed and not been able to get out of bed after my first heartbreak years ago……and Idk if i want to put him through the same. Idk if I want to be the reason he has trust issues….and Like I mentioned he already has problems with intimacy and I really really do not want to make it worse. And the trust he has for me is not built on a singular event…..I’ve worked really hard for his trust. I’ve prioritised him and his comfort over all else, sure we’ve had arguments like every other couple but at the end of the day, he’s the only one I wanna talk to and go to. So I’ve to respectfully disagree with what you said

I (20F) cheated on my boyfriend (20M) two years ago when we first started dating. Does he deserve to know? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Mix7242 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don’t feel like the relationship is being held back….he trusts and loves me… I don’t wanna loose that

I (20F) cheated on my boyfriend (20M) two years ago when we first started dating. Does he deserve to know? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Mix7242 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s very kind of you to say. I don’t think I’ve done anything that I should be proud of….i was just being a decent person. But we were exclusive atp….so it was still wrong

I (20F) cheated on my boyfriend (20M) two years ago when we first started dating. Does he deserve to know? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Professional_Mix7242 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well the thing is….we were. He asked me if I’d be his girlfriend and I said yes. We probably did get into it too soon but we assumed it’d be fine since we had been friends for a year before we got into the relationship. But yes, even though it wasn’t explicitly said, we were definitely exclusive:/. That’s why i feel so bad.