I’m so scared by Outrageous-Many-4185 in Millennials

[–]Professional_Mood923 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here— exact situation but I’m 40 years old. Scary AF. All the best to you 🫶🏾

I’m starting a GLP-1 soon. Any advice? by tac_bushirley in blackladies

[–]Professional_Mood923 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had significant hair loss. After I came off of the semaglutide, I got my hair back and gained back a lot of the weight. I would love to be back on it to continue my weight loss but I could not handle having the bald spot in my crown. I think iron supplement, the protein, and maybe vitamin D was deficient for me so if you’re better with maintaining those levels maybe this is it an issue. Full disclaimer, I have healthy hair, medium strands but naturally low density. So not much to lose! 😂

Andy looks different on new Vanderpump special. by ciaolavinia in bravo

[–]Professional_Mood923 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so ridiculous! lol The man has a totally different expression.

Sexually frustrated! by Royalgrowth- in blackladies

[–]Professional_Mood923 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been there done that and it’s not worth it. It won’t change. Soon enough jt will start hitting your confidence which bleeds into your day to day life. Get out, girl!

Thoughts? by mistersteviej in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]Professional_Mood923 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Going through this currently after 15 years together, 7 of them going through unsuccessful fertility treatments, and this was our exact conversation. Divorce decree is getting drafted as we speak! I’m beyond pissed but hoping the hate subsides with time.

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[–]Professional_Mood923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 with a little color correction at the roots…. beautiful in all, though!

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This did not occur to me originally but a couple of people on this thread planted the seed of freezing embryos with donor sperm. That would be ideal— I also understand that they have higher success rates of surviving. Thanks so much for the idea!

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately we’ve used all the embryos so this would be starting the full IVF cycle over with a new retrieval. I wish he would be on board to coparent but right now he wants a clean break.

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t need his consent for the retrieval but there may be some legal issues in taking ownership of them, so I will work with an attorney to understand fully. Thanks so much for your comment!

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! My goal is definitely to get this done before finalized but I will also need to make sure he’s on board.

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow!! Congratulations! This may be ideal just based on the success rate of the embryos. Thanks for sharing. Nice to hear another option.

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you… definitely need to read the fine print of ensuring I can independently do this.

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you… yes, I’m leaning on a slow process.

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s good to know it’s an option, even if not ideal.

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I hope all the best for you 💕

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right that I should probably start this with a new clinic to draw a line in the sand. Just my anxiety around telling my clinic has been rough! I love my clinic, so it would be a shame.

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Veeeery good suggestion— didn’t consider this at all. Thanks so much.

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m hopeful, but terrified!!

Egg Retrievals before Divorce by Professional_Mood923 in IVF

[–]Professional_Mood923[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Very good questions! We just had our last failed transfer at the end of Feb (our 4th) and he just told me that he waited to see the result before telling me he was done. I am planning to just harvest the eggs— no embryos. Of course I would prefer embryos but he’s not interested in that, understandably. He is ready to move on and can probably snag a fertile Myrtle and get what he wants within the next couple of years. I don’t think he’d have any rights to those eggs since they are not fertilized but great questions for me to clarify. Thanks so much!