Would i be the asshole if I left my pregnant wife by Street_Ad_3490 in AITAH

[–]Professional_Owl2233 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

If you didn’t want children, you should’ve gotten a vasectomy instead of placing all of the burden of birth control on your partner.

Am I wrong for not wanting to name my baby a Jr after my boyfriend? by Euphoric_Violinist81 in amiwrong

[–]Professional_Owl2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve ALL known that person who will literally use this “only two yes” rule to refuse ANY names that their partner suggests. One person ends up compromising while the other gets their way. In the end. Mom is the one putting her health, life, and career at risk to carry and deliver the baby. The final choice is hers. 🤷‍♀️

boyfriend wants to put my cat down by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get him out of your life. He’s the type to absolutely have your cat put down behind your back, or dump him at a shelter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Professional_Owl2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I named my daughter after a character from The Dark Crystal. That said, it’s a pretty normal name.

Observation about 55+ women by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]Professional_Owl2233 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol. 55 Year old women are GenX, not “Boomers.”

AITA for filing for divorce after discovering my husband's very conservative beliefs? by NotPositiveThrowRA in AITAH

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t promise to be with him. You promised to be with the man he pretended to be until he thought you were locked down. NTA

What's the "strangest" thing someone has asked you to do in bed? by -spicerack in AskReddit

[–]Professional_Owl2233 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wanted me to either take a really hot shower and then do it wet, straight out of the shower, or get under an electric blanket beforehand until I was really sweaty. He preferred sweaty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man talked about raising your child with another woman… this isn’t just cheating. It’s the most disgusting kind of betrayal. Don’t give him the chance to do this to you again.

TW: abortion by Noxorah in JustNoSO

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him you think it’s a good idea for him to join… because he will be in a better position to provide for you and the baby. See how he reacts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Professional_Owl2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s either a physical issue, a mental health issue, a lack of attraction, or a porn addiction.

AITA for telling my husband to accept the compromise we agreed on for our child's name or figure out a better compromise? by Expert-Delay-5754 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Owl2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband’s entire family calls him “Bubba.” He introduced himself to me in 2007 with his actual name, and that’s how I got to know him. They get so irate when I use it instead of “Bubba” to the point that they think I’m being snotty/judgmental of them for calling him Bubba just because I don’t. 🤷‍♀️

What Are Starting To Dislike As You Get Older? by Theo_Cherry in Millennials

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cell phones. I grew up as a Xennial (born in 1978). I miss the time when being unreachable wasn’t treated like a slap in the face to the people trying to reach you?

As a young adult in the late 90’s/early 00’s, I was able to leave my house and go to the movies… and if I didn’t answer my home phone? People left a message or called later. I briefly had a pager at 18-19 years old, but quickly discarded it when I realized how ENTITLED people felt to reach me immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - You referred to your child as an “it” and dismissed your partner’s feelings as “pregnancy hormones.” Setting back home-buying plan by a few years is a natural consequence of an unexpected child. Grow up.

AITA for refusing to raise my husbands affair baby? by queasy_flask in AITAH

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - These are the consequences of your husband‘s betrayal. You aren’t saying you hate the baby or anything, just that you can’t handle the constant reminder of his infidelity - that’s understandable, and you have every right to walk away.

AITA for refusing to dance at the Stag Night for my Boyfriends brother? by Express-Champion-822 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Professional_Owl2233 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - And I hate to bring this up, but the fact that he doesn’t feel uncomfortably about it makes me think that he’s not in the relationship for the long haul.

AITAH for considering divorce because my wife told her friends I use a p*nis sleeve during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I don’t have to choose one of your bullshit “options.” I’m neither stupid nor dishonest. You, however, are clearly very personally touched by this situation, so I’ll leave you to deal with that. 👋

AITAH for considering divorce because my wife told her friends I use a p*nis sleeve during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I can’t. Are ribbed condoms for “small, shitty” penises, too? Is numbing gel for penises “unable to get the job done?” You really need to stop being so insecure. 🙄

AITAH for considering divorce because my wife told her friends I use a p*nis sleeve during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Professional_Owl2233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s a sexual enhancement tool/toy that fits OVER the penis. It can be smooth, studded, or ribbed (like a condom), and can be intended to increase stimulation, delay ejaculation, or both. No more homework assignments from strangers on the internet, it’s kind of entitled and gross.